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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 3:44pm On Aug 23, 2012
sexkillz: Smh @ some ridiculous comments i am reading. . .


Sorry hommes, but the truth remains the truth.. Many single women are not so out of choice. Trust me. Especially not in Nigeria. I am speaking of those who would have loved to be married but are still single.
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by sashaa(f): 3:44pm On Aug 23, 2012
Okija_juju:

NO!!

However, who are we kidding?! If a 40 year old woman is unmarried and can tell me that all the over 15 - 20 men she dated in her life time were unmarriable, then its either her village people are working overtime or there is something about her that attracts shitty niggas.. #Justsaying

Looking back at all the girls I have dated, I can count atleast 5 that I can say with all confidence that I could have married and would have been happy being married to them.
15-20 men? Dont be too quick to have an opinion based on sheer assumptions. Fact is things dont happen for evryone the same way. Some ladies from their late teens till late 20's may get like just 3 suitors(..or less) while for some, they wouldnt even be able to count.
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Maxdiamond(m): 3:44pm On Aug 23, 2012
freecocoa: All these mumu talk dey sha tire me.
Y e go tire u?wen it comes 2 marriage issue,u go run b/cos u b girl.bt if na another issue u go begin dey comment stupid tins frm ur "coconut" head.

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Yahoo1(m): 3:46pm On Aug 23, 2012
Shollypopz:
I'm too young for marriage in my opinion.....besides, i don't do broke guys
...am not broke! Come do me. :-D
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 3:47pm On Aug 23, 2012
sashaa:
15-20 men? Dont be too quick to have an opinion based on sheer assumptions. Fact is things dont happen for evryone the same way. Some ladies from their late teens till late 20's may get like just 3 suitors(..or less) while for some, they wouldnt even be able to count.


True!!

But whose fault is it?!

Some women are so nasty that they are unapproachable..
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Reference(m): 3:52pm On Aug 23, 2012
legendprac: For old unmarried guys, irrespective of the economy, I think a man dat is unmarried @ 40 and above is a foool... Cuz, he must also have passed on some oppotunities dat came his way @ one point or the oda to make money... Some even made money,but lavished it on some stupid lifestyle...if u get married @ 40, with wot strength will u train ur kids? Do u have plans of seeing ur grand children? Those r questions guys should also ask themselves when dey r busy living d 'life' and not thinking about settling down...
But d problem is dat, we are in a crazy society where a man of even 70 can go and get married to a gurl of 17(which is crazy)...but, if a lady clocks 40yrs in our society, how many suitors does she attract @ dat age?
Wit that, ladies should be wise when dey are young and make timely correct decisions, cuz dia biological clock and our society puts dem in a 'disadvantaged' position

But getting married early doesn't necessarily mean a better quality of life for you or your kids.

Picture this. Five more years of education can prevent a woman raising kids with childhood diseases, can enhance pre-school education, can make for better social choices and as recent reports say, can prolong family longevity by upwards of five years.

Believe me, if the woman is not ready, she is not ready and am not talking about money here but time well spent on personal development.

We are in times when women HAVE TO know more and do more so that we are all likely to see our future grand children. If it takes time so be it. What's the rush to polio, ignorance and poverty.

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Aug 23, 2012
Okija_juju:


Sorry hommes, but the truth remains the truth.. Many single women are not so out of choice. Trust me. Especially not in Nigeria. I am speaking of those who would have loved to be married but are still single.
And what of those who are in such states because men heartlessly dumped them? Or are you absolving menfolk of wrongdoing in this regard, no?

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by warrior01: 3:57pm On Aug 23, 2012
Shollypopz:
I'm too young for marriage in my opinion.....besides, i don't do broke guys
don't worry by the time you clock 45 you'll beg to be hooked to a broke guy
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Reference(m): 3:59pm On Aug 23, 2012
Dunno if its me but I see more ladies in unions or with children that I would sincerely love to ask., what was the rush than those awaiting. If the time in waiting is well spent, I think its worth it.
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 4:04pm On Aug 23, 2012
sexkillz: And what of those who are in such states because men heartlessly dumped them? Or are you absolving menfolk of wrongdoing in this regard, no?


Actually, there would be a few exceptions, however, I think the exceptions are so minute that they become negligible.. And HEY! they also dump men as well.. In my first post on this thread, I swung the pendelum both ways..
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Aug 23, 2012
warrior01:
don't worry by the time you clock 45 you'll beg to be hooked to a broke guy
Dude marriage is not by force 4 me oooo. I hv lot of things to do in this life. If i dnt marry, i'll just dedicate myself to career and charity. A broke guy would be intimidated by me anyway undecided
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 23, 2012
Yahoo1: ...am not broke! Come do me. :-D
I can see ur yahoo yahoo business is bringing in cash. Just so you know, all these oyinbos don dey sharp ooo. Nobody wan fall mugu again
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 23, 2012
Okija_juju:


Actually, there would be a few exceptions, however, I think the exceptions are so minute that they become negligible.. And HEY! they also dump men as well.. In my first post on this thread, I swung the pendelum both ways..
If the pendulum swings both ways, why is the focus on ladies?

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by bittyend(m): 4:10pm On Aug 23, 2012
Lmao @the topic.

The gods are to be blamed! I love me some single and aged women, especially when they're someone's baby's mum.

"They probably went to hell for snuffing Jesus" - Nas

Blame it on the alcohol! cool

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 4:10pm On Aug 23, 2012
sexkillz: If the pendulum swings both ways, why is the focus on ladies?

I guess its cos the OP is a guy maybe..

Also, most guys tend to feel like the weight of being unmarried is heavier on the woman than it is on men as most men feel a 50 year old single guy is okay, bu =t a 30 year old single woman is doomed.
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Aug 23, 2012
Shollypopz:
Dude marriage is not by force 4 me oooo. I hv lot of things to do in this life. If i dnt marry, i'll just dedicate myself to carrer and charity. A broke guy would be intimidated by me anyway undecided
Say what?
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 4:11pm On Aug 23, 2012
bittyend: Lmao @the topic.

The gods are to be blamed! I love me some single and aged women, especially when they're someone's baby's mum.

"They probably went to hell for snuffing Jesus" - Nas

Blame it on the alcohol! cool


angry

Why blame the gods?!!

The gods are wise..
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Aug 23, 2012
sexkillz: Say what?
SHUT UP!!
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by sashaa(f): 4:12pm On Aug 23, 2012
Okija_juju:


True!!

But whose fault is it?!

Some women are so nasty that they are unapproachable..
true,
but what about those that wern't nasty, wern't snobbish, but just found themselves dumped. The years run fast, my friend. Lets take a scenario, a girl met n fell in love with a nice guy at 22, they date for about 3years, with the intention of getting married (..d guy already proposed during that time), dude starts acting up but still assures her of his love when she confronts him abt his attitude. Another year goes by and he outrightly dumps her. She's 26 now n so heartbroken.she starts to lick her wounds hoping to meet someone better. The years are slippn by n so far she has just been meeting unserious dudes who aint ready to settle down but ar just after fun. Next u know, she's clocks thirty still single. And someone says 'single at 30?' what has she been doin all these years when her mates were getting married.smh
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by free2ryhme: 4:12pm On Aug 23, 2012
Shollypopz:
Dude marriage is not by force 4 me oooo. I hv lot of things to do in this life. If i dnt marry, i'll just dedicate myself to carrer and charity. A broke guy would be intimidated by me anyway undecided

dis wan we be say na so so broke broke you dey mention .. Na so poverty plenty for ya family ni
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by bittyend(m): 4:13pm On Aug 23, 2012
Okija_juju:
angry

Why blame the gods?!!

The gods are wise..

Don't you see them in churches begging God to give them Mr. Right, huh?

I blame the gods! cool

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Aug 23, 2012
Okija_juju:

I guess its cos the OP is a guy maybe..

Also, most guys tend to feel like the weight of being unmarried is heavier on the woman than it is on men as most men feel a 50 year old single guy is okay, bu =t a 30 year old single woman is doomed.
Blame that on the society that castigates a lady for not getting married earlier. . .

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Aug 23, 2012
bittyend: Lmao @the topic.

The gods are to be blamed! I love me some single and aged women, especially when they're someone's baby's mum.

"They probably went to hell for snuffing Jesus" - Nas

Blame it on the alcohol! cool
Alternate account!!....where hv u been naw??!

KAI!! see as u just abandoned me 4 dat cuddlemii's thread.......Is it because my game was too hot 4 u??!
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Aug 23, 2012
Shollypopz:
SHUT UP!!
Ok.

Miss "carrer" oriented. grin
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Aug 23, 2012
Okija_juju:


angry

Why blame the gods?!!

The gods are wise..
Why are ppl bothering to answer this OKija Juju guy......was he not the one that said it's a woman's fault if her husband is beating her angry
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 4:17pm On Aug 23, 2012
sashaa:
true,
but what about those that wern't nasty, wern't snobbish, but just found themselves dumped. The years run fast, my friend. Lets take a scenario, a girl met n fell in love with a nice guy at 22, they date for about 3years, with the intention of getting married (..d guy already proposed during that time), dude starts acting up but still assures her of his love when she confronts him abt his attitude. Another year goes by and he outrightly dumps her. She's 26 now n so heartbroken.she starts to lick her wounds hoping to meet someone better. The years are slippn by n so far she has just been meeting unserious dudes who aint ready to settle down but ar just after fun. Next u know, she's clocks thirty still single. And someone says 'single at 30?' what has she been doin all these years when her mates were getting married.smh


Well.. I cant argue with you on this at all..

But most times, the story isnt always as youplayedit out to be.. Its one thingto be dating a guy, its another thingto steer him in the direction of marriage.. Most girls are just air heads.. In all things, you need wisdom.
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Yahoo1(m): 4:18pm On Aug 23, 2012
Shollypopz:
I can see ur yahoo yahoo business is bringing in cash. Just so you know, all these oyinbos don dey sharp ooo. Nobody wan fall mugu again
if you are worried that my cash will soon dry up,dont be.....am all settled! ;-)
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Aug 23, 2012
Max'diamond:
Y e go tire u?wen it comes 2 marriage issue,u go run b/cos u b girl.bt if na another issue u go begin dey comment stupid tins frm ur "coconut" head.


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Aug 23, 2012
sexkillz: Ok.

Miss "carrer" oriented. grin
lol, U've been waiting to get back @ me rit?
Just pray u dnt mk mistakes oooo, because I'll broadcast it to d whole of NL
Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by bittyend(m): 4:22pm On Aug 23, 2012
To be honest, not everyone is going to get married - and forcing 'marriage' down people's throat is the reason why the divorce rate is high. You need to find the right person to get married to, and in the world that we live in right now, that's the most difficult thing. Women run things right now, and they have raised the bar to a level, most men can't get to. Feminism changed the game - and women run things right now.

Blame the society and 'modernists' for this madness, because a lot of men are scared of getting married to women who will end up disrespecting them because of the new status women have in the modern world. The bar is too high for most men, and women aren't helping matters with their new found 'fame' in feminism.

In short, marriage needs to be re-defined!

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Aug 23, 2012
Okija_juju:


Well.. I cant argue with you on this at all..

But most times, the story isnt always as youplayedit out to be.. Its one thingto be dating a guy, its another thingto steer him in the direction of marriage.. Most girls are just air heads.. In all things, you need wisdom.
The story isn't always as anyone plays it out to be. . . Including you, and the OP. wink

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Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Aug 23, 2012
Shollypopz:
Dude marriage is not by force 4 me oooo. I hv lot of things to do in this life. If i dnt marry, i'll just dedicate myself to career and charity. A broke guy would be intimidated by me anyway undecided

SORRY TOOTS. IM NOT BUYING THIS. SOUNDS LIKE A CASE OF THE FOX AND THE GRAPES - PEOPLE SAY THEY DONT WANT WHAT THEY CANT GET wink

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