jennykadry: Still singing to my darling GAGGI. The love of my life, my knight in shining armour. You alone deserve my attention, no one else. I know you are a jealous lover.

You are all I want, you are all I need, you are everything

jennykadry:

Did you call me ma? . Ina tu'furu fa onu? ndi ara. Nwanyi ga bia na be'm, tinye aka na ite pot'umu without my permission? m'macha ya ura ehn, oso na ije ka oji a fu nu no mu.

jennykadry:

Did you call me ma? . Ina tu'furu fa onu? ndi ara. Nwanyi ga bia na be'm, tinye aka na ite pot'umu without my permission? m'macha ya ura ehn, oso na ije ka oji a fu nu no mu.

sweetcocoa: I'm not married and that's cos i asked him to wait for sometime,btw this isn't about solving violence with violence,for crying out loud,how can a SIL come to take over my house,my baby and even my bed,yet someone expects me to fold my hands and watch that happen?

It doesn't have to end with violence or getting physical i will so deal with them that they'd be asking what hit them,mba nu again,adighi eme ya eme.

freshmoney:


What does adighi eme ya eme have to do with what I wrote? By the way, what is the meaning? Hope you are not swearing here ..

Nigerian women, especially igbo, e get as e be

dayokanu: See scope, Ibo women and sense.

As we speak now, Ifyalways dey "busy" with harakiri, JK don use style collect like 5 e-boyfriends for herself sharp sharp while all those Yorubas like Busybody, ronke and chaircover dey dull demselves

Very soon now JK and all these guys like Gaggi, reinedamsey , decency etc would be on IM having hot steamy kpekusing and born pikin while the single girls are on romance section fighting 190 and Mr Cork

Jenny I salute you ooo

GboyegaD: [/b]

This is highly unfair. He has the right to allow his family dictate in his family and the wife's family cannot right? Anyways, we are all wired differently and grew up under different circumstance as such, I do not expect us to share same opinion on some things. However, I do not support injustice of any kind on either the man or the woman's family and it is right to draw boundaries clearly so that he who goes outside his /her reach should bear the consequence of such action.

jennykadry:

I disagree with the tigress issue oooo or better still explain the tigress part well. I am a tigress outside my home and a loving dove inside my home and yes my tigress nature comes in handy at home sometimes. My husband till date tells my father that when it comes to "mouth" issues, he knows his wife can take care of herself very well without him being there but when it becomes physical that is when she remembers she has a husband she can speed dial.

I was raised to be blunt and outspoken. So i do not waste my time speaking my mind and standing up to anybody even a man. The only time I know say power pass power was in my early years of marriage when I was still having anger issues, one day after an argument he had his back turned to me so I threw a pillow and was about to throw the bed side lamp when all of a sudden this tall guy pinned me to the bed and held me there for good 2 minutes, I could not even move any part of my body , my teeth and mouth sef could not move that day, when he knew I was not going to throw another thing, he just released my hand and walked away. Na that day I know say, my strength no reach man own and I had to apologize on my knees and stayed on my knees for good 15 minutes performing a well deserved BJ

Busy_body:


Pardon

Time i go a-looking for my gentle Jennykadry my pacifier, to calm my frayed nerves with her soothing words and sip some of the chilled rainwater she has been selflessly collecting for Outstrip, before i combust with rage

jennykadry: Lol @ richy. I trust you to show up. Oloshi. A man held me to calm me down for 2 minutes lest I throw a heavy bedside lamp with glass at him and you are here saying assault, do you know how many times I out of anger tried to throw deadly weapon at him? Just because I did not get my way? Haaaa bless the first year of my marriage, no dull moment in that house. Do you know how many times he just grabbed me and held me so tight so tey I no fit move until he see say my breathing don cam down before he release me and waka? Define assault, lmao Nigerians and their illiterate brain. The more reason why I love that man to death, men like the posters foolish husband might have given in and slapped me one or beaten me blue black but the dude who went for anger management one off class with me, took the advise he was told there and practiced it and it worked, so sweetie it is legal. Abeg make I hear word, the smart dude calculated the distance from his location to the door and see say if he rushes for the door he might not make it alive hence his second option. God punish the man that will physically fling me on the bed like the OP or hit me, slap me or even shout at me in our house, e go hear am.That day you go bail yourself for jail.

Women do not allow men manhandle you oooo. Speak up and kick any mans azz that abuses you, else you will all end up like titi and OGO. Women that get punched everyday and beaten blue black do not deserve the eediots that do that to them. My mum was never hit by my father and she told me never to allow that happen in my house and so far I bless God for the real born again Christian he blessed me with. A man that will rather walk out of the house than stay one minute to forget slaps on my face.

Lol@dayo

ronkebp:


JENNY TWO OF US NO FIT LIVE FOR THE SAME HOUSE, WE GO BREAK THINGS TIRE!!!!

debby999: Dear married women and men,pls I need your advice on this issue. I just had a baby boy and still on recovery, my sister inlaw came and Since then my peaceful home has turn to war zone. As am writting this I feel like runing away with my little boy.This lady has never talked to me since she came into the house.she is type that does my "brother's house I don't send anybody".Big war started the day I finished cooking and was about dishing food this lady went to pot and started taking her own. After she finished the eating, I called her and explain to her as I should to my younger ones, that it was not right for her to take the food I just finished cooking without letting me knw. Most times they will take all the meat in the food. The next day my husband called me that her siSter reported me to him. So I told him and he to said it was right. I didn't knw they have tabled the matter with their other sisters and all of them called me and saying I must allow their sis. To go the pot anything anytime she wants which I refused,she was just calling me names. I was suprised when she said my husband supported that the lady should be allowed. My husband came in I told him all that happened,he couldn't stand on his ground to defened his wife infront of his sisters. I felt unprotected. The last one that happened that made me write this was the day my husband brought up dat issue again,bcose he noticed his sister has not been eaten the food in the house. He said I have to treat his sisters with care and piortity and if I don't treat them dat way, bcose a always insist on the right thing, dat anything I see I should take.I told him since you cannot give me protection I have to let my parents knw about incase anything happens to me.called my parents to let them. My baby started crying I bathed him and gave him the baby so I can prepare his food. On bringing the food to feed him,my husband pushed me out, took the food frm me and gave his sister to feed him. Carried me up and threw me on the bed, my hand hit the wardrobe, I was carrying. I dressed up to get a recharge card to let my people knw, he carried me up again and threw me on thE bed. I have to sneaked out late at night when he was sleeping. I called them and I was scared to go back again, I remebered my baby I had to go back. When I got back he has gone out to look for me, I opend my room to sleep, I found his sisters sleeping on my bed, I left them and slept on the couch. I asked the little girl he said my husband told them to sleep there. Am no longer feel protected with him. Since he can humulaite his wife in the presence of his sisters. Waiting for advice. Sorry for the errors, typed it in hurry so I can attend to my baby. ThAnks all.

debby999: @feminie are u married? If my own sisters would cook and ask me to come and dish the food. I would explain someone dat wil almost push u down,struggling with u in ur own. All in the name of my brothers kitten. I bought everything dat kittchen. Do u that kittchen is a woman's department. My husband agreed with me only to turned back me when his sisters confronted him.

dayokanu: If na me be your husband

Person wey no like wahala, our communication would be via facebook

Outstrip: Ronke and Jenny I wish you guys were my sister in laws. My dad would have enjoyed you guys LOL

jennykadry: Lol@ outstrip

The man saw hell in my hands. . No day went by without Jenny doing something . Now I know why my dad did not collet bride price from him, the old man must have been so happy that finally, someone has taken this girl out of his house he gave him me for free .what about the one that I lost my cool once and wanted to start breaking things again? Haa,, the way he jumped up from the sofa and grabbed me ehn, gosh men strong ooooo grabbed me so tey I was sitting on him with both hands held together by him, Cheii. the next thing you hear is "calm down, calm down, take a deep breath, ok I am letting you go now but don't break anything oo, good girl".

Outstrip I feel like causing another commotion, remembering those sweet times is turning me on to do another bad. I swear no one will tell that man in his next life never to marry an under 21, he learnt his lesson the hard way