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bukatyne: A woman that owns her business is way more flexible than a salary earner. I have an aunt that if she decided to skip going to her business for a week, money is still flowing in for her. Skip work for a week as a salary earner and come back to tell us the tale. Honestly, life is easier than we think. Upon all the 9-5 and 9-9 women do, a vast majority of them are well underpaid for the kind of job they do. They half-neglect the kids for work that's paying peanuts. So what's the point? Is it by force to born pikin sef? ![]() I see couples that have been married for 10 years and over and they have no kids yet, because they can't afford it (even though they seem comfortable). But the Nigerian (not only Nigerians) mentality is to start popping out kids as soon as you get married to prove you're capable ![]() 4 kids in the space of 7 yrs with no planning and both parents working like enslaved Israelites in Egypt.... tell me how that's not unnecessary stress If we can't focus on these kids in their early years (at least) it's better not to bring them into this world. In recent times that peoples' lives are a revolving door consisting of bills, debts and paychecks, it's hard to nurture a kid. And that's more reason why it requires adequate and thorough planning in terms of being there as parents emotionally/physically and materially. No need to do patch- patch if you can't provide. If you can't be there, don't have kids. |
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Nashville: 'do you have difficulty interpreting simple sentences?' isn't enough reason to quit this debate. C'mon on, man up! I'm a strong advocate for staying at home for your kids (for a while), but the workaholic-mums camp has made great points on this thread so far. So, please continue. coogar: The men are so used to getting help from their wives nowadays that the thought of her staying home for the kids (for a while) is mind boggling. Some men even vex that their spouses have to stay home for two weeks after she's put to bed. ![]() And the women too, the "what a man can do a woman can do better" mentality has changed their thought processes. 'I must feel important- I must work all my life-'. Forgetting that they're the BIOLOGICAL MOTHER of those kids. The kids need their mother for those first few years. can't stress enough how important that is. |
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Nashville: I don't think that's what he meant. Coogar is saying the 'stay-at-home' scheme is temporary (3,4-5yrs, depending on child spacing ). How does that equate to her not deserving to work? Plus she's been working prior pregnancy/ies. It's just a break. Her Harvard degree isn't going to waste like you claim. Dedicating 5 whole years to your kids out of the 75 years one will live for isn't much of a big deal if you ask me. |
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@Idowu lol. Ok. Now I get it. My bad. I was "conversing" with cocoa though, not you, so I don't know why you're taking this more serious than she is--- weird. Iyale, don't take me too seriously; rather, play along. If you decide to take me to heart, then you're working unnecessary nerves, coz I mean no harm. |
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Idowuogbo: Lmao. Odikwa this is very serious. You're lying, Something is eating you up. Just squash it once and fore-all. What is your problem? If you can't tell me what exactly the problem is, you can always go to the diary section to pour it all out. ![]() Idowuogbo: oRn Point. ![]() |
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Idowuogbo: lol. Who asked you? Why are you conversing with yourself? 90% of what you typed has nothing to do with my post. What's eating you up? --all intended rhetorical questions-- |
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^ lol. You people ehn. I didn't make them ban killz. He threw the first punch. I should have ignored him, but I chose not to. That was the mistake on my part. |
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freecocoa: lol. Can't do that. |
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But I want to see your face. That's the rule on NL. Moderators should have access to your face in case anything comes up. Ask 190. Plus, you can't go around saying you're fine without the evidence. That's "false advertisement" you know. lol- Don't mind me cocoa. |
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@Cocoa: Chei, ignore oga tellwisdom. Don't mind him. He's a trouble maker. Concentrate on my request. Where the picture na? The picture you promised. I'm still waiting. I wanna see that lovely cocoa butter face of yours. |
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190smh: Nah. She's gonna show me. Freecocoa, I'm waiting. I want to be the unsolicited judge of your "pretty" face. |
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Idowuogbo: lol. Calm down. It was a simple request. |
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Goldieluks: Ok. Are you pretty? ![]() freecocoa: Ok. Can I see your picture? |
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Goldieluks: So that automatically means the ones reserving their pictures are "pretty"? |
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Goldieluks: ![]() Idowuogbo: Explain yourself in plain english. |
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Goldieluks: Lies. |
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seedord247: Too late. Thread cleaned. |
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Idowuogbo: lol. No one is above the "law". I'm a scapegoat. |
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Idowuogbo: Fight ke? I no fit fight you; my ex-Iyale. ![]() Well, if you think so. |
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Idowuogbo: You are gullible. 190 no get sense pass. What you see is what you get. |
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coogar: His matter don tire person. Where would one start from in tushing the bloke up? Just where? |
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190_@: LMAO. Dinner date at 4pm. 190, you're done. |
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coogar: Siri loun loun. 190? Know what Siri is? 190 announces when he comes back from a cinema, like he went to space; He describes how his 3D glasses looked. You now expect him to know what siri is? l think not. |
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190_@: Predictable. You hardly make sense. |
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^^ Perfect. I hope he shuts up now. |
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190_@: Rofl. Of course you're confused. Java Man. |
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190_@: Step up your game. Spend a day with Siri. ![]() |
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publisher: I was speaking for myself. denzel2009: Free my guy jo. |
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190: 4uck up! lmaooo Well, next time, don't paint pictures! That's me o, weeks ago! ![]() It's babe btw! |
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I like bracket too, but all their songs kinda sound the same. Maybe it's me. ![]() You like Flavor? ![]() ![]() Yh, our taste is very alike, Just that I like a wider range of Nigerian music. I like everyone you listed, (I'm including) M.I, Sauce kid, Naeto C, Dagrin, D-banj(sometimes), Mo-Hits in general, Whizkid, Dammy krane, Kelly handsome. etc. They too many, lol oh yh have you heard https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUmX19Rt1ug It's kinda old too. and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQsW9v4VTW4&feature=related **It's babe by the way, i didn't know, I was using that account sef*** |
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@ Andy1 Thank you very much! But pls do me one favor---un-quote him abeg. I'm tryna remove the pictures completely. I don fall for hand already. From now on, I'll be careful of who to 4uck with on NL. Clearly, Not every is in the right state of mind. Oh yh, it's BABE! |
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jay bee: I don fall for hand I swear!, lol Thank you very much JayBee. Much appreciated. He has some of them in the General Welcome section. Pls who do I meet for the removal of those ones. ? |
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