onumadu: Let me help to hammer home some of the OP's points, and I will use real life stories.
Back when I was young and still available and roaming, I had two distinct experiences with "strange women". What saved me was that I've always been a spiritual person and always understood the point about strange women. In fact there is nothing I fear more than women. No blame me, na so I see am.
Case #1: When I was about 21 yrs, I shared a bus ride with one lady while traveling from one part of Nigeria to another, and at the end of our trip we exchanged contacts and she promised to visit me. When I got home, that same night I had a dream, and in that dream I saw the type of shinning snake I had never seen before and it was making a weird hissing sound. Then I woke up. My dreams are mostly direct messages from God. What did I do after? I gave instructions to my people that if any girl came to look for me, they should tell her that she had the wrong address.. That was the end of that one.
Case #2: I met one lady at a mall somewhere abroad. To cut a long story short, we connected and exchanged contact information. Again, that same night I had a dream, and in that dream I saw an entity that looked like "ekwensu" - a tall black dinosaur-like creature whose height was as tall as a four story building. When the entity moved, buildings around the place shook. Then I woke up. Nobody told me to again delete the lady's contact and never picked up any of her calls, and that was that!
Nwanne, the world is a very very dangerous place where entities use women to do a LOT of damage to men who lack spiritual discernment.
Suffice it to say that once I got married, I closed shop.
Single men may not find it easy to avoid these troubles, but they should at least try, because the dangers are very real. This is part of why I am a FIERCE DEFENDER OF MARRIAGES, whether monogamous or polygamous. Anything that can keep a man at home is very much welcome as far as I'm concerned. That thing you want to do, do it inside your marriage. It is safer -by far!
I mean in this time and age we still have human beings with this mindset. We are in trouble in Nigeria
Then sell them abroad. Nigerians now how to shoot themselves on the foot. Dangote is a business man, he should do his business. It take Nigerians time to turn around, but they will
officialwdhtv: “I’m no longer interested in going into steel development, I’m not the only Nigerian. There are Nigerians that may even have more cash than I do, they should go into that area of business” — Aliko Dangote.
They are determined to see that TRUMP doesn't get close to the white house. My respect to Biden. I knew that it would come to this immediately Obama made that comment that Biden should "reconsider his re-election" bid. That statement from Obama was the final nail on the coffin regarding Biden's ambition. The democrats are also afraid that if Biden should remain, many of them would loose their senatorial and house of representative elections.
The new candidate would be up against a herculean task. Trump will likely roast the Democrats and the candidate that would succeed Biden, saying that they are coming up with a novice to challenge him. The election is Trump's own to loose. He has the momentum, currently.
It's just a face value. Let's see who the Dems choose. This fight is not yet over. The Dems did it with Obama so wait and see
sleek214: Lol. Their problem just started. Who will get the ticket, definitely no Kamal Harris... If they don't give it to Kamala, the blacks with revolt with their votes..... But the major donors don't want Kamala.... Irrespective of who gets the ticket, it's a landslide victory for Donald Trump...
I beg to differ. This is the time Dems have to rise to the storm. It's a shitty situation for them but if they don't play their cards right they will loose. Obama won the election from an underdog position and the Dems can do so again. Obama is spearheading this movement and he only agreed to if only if Biden quits. Biden has just quit.
allcomage: Folks perception matters.The lady I interviewed yesterday for a job lost it because of double ear piercings though she wore on a pair. It gave her off as unserious and wayward person that cannot be trusted in an organisation. She missed 80k per month in this hard time,very unfortunate.
Imagine a most stupid personal discriminatory reason to deny someone a job. This person could have been the saviour of the organisation that employed you
Sonnobax15: The respect these women accord to their pastors,I wish they can give the same to their husbands,most marriages that had broken up would have at least seen the light of the day..
Mr. Man,you better man up and never give any mother fvcker disguising to be called by God to play your role as the man of the house, unless she's hiding something from you
Make God no give me wife wey go dey obsessed with any daddy G.O cha, because I know for sure I won't condone that...
It's the man that allows that rubbish. There is no reason for a woman to give more respect to her pastor than her husband
Almiron: Where are those "it was staged crew" I guess this is part of the script too, they staged his death and instructed his wife not to pick President Biden's call.
I think she should have picked the call, albeit she already said she didn't blame him for her husband's death cos obviously he has nothing to do with it. She should pick the call and accept the Old man's condolences.
All of us go die one day!!! Till then we move....
One has nothing to do with the other. Please let's not muddle issues. This event seems as staged as it comes. Doesn't mean they won't cause a death and call it sacrifice. Besides the death of her husband was just collateral damage
NLCreator: Britain's Labour Party leader Keir Starmer has come under fire for failing to publicly thank his Nigerian counterpart, Mr. Peter Obi, whose tweet of endorsement ended 14 years of right-wing conservative rule. This supernatural feat has left many scratching their heads, especially since Obi couldn't help himself win the 2023 Nigerian presidential election, though supporters blame election rigging.
"This is sad. After all that Peter Obi has done for him, he couldn't even say 'thank you'," said an angry-looking Chukwudi, sipping a cup of garri in his 2-by-2 shop in Abia. "For 14 years, they couldn't achieve anything. It took Obi a single tweet to end the conservative run. But what did Obi get in return? Such an ungrateful fellow!" Chukwudi continued, as he updated his Twitter bio to "Expert at Installing Governments."
Meanwhile, local tomato hawker Chimamanda found the situation even more tragic for democracy. "I supported Starmer's Labour because Peter Obi instructed us to. I campaigned for the party with all my strength here in Awka. I gave away free tomatoes to the people of Anambra with Starmer's picture on them to show my support. Nothing says 'Vote Labour' like a juicy tomato with a British politician's face on it!. They won because of our support. The least they could do after emerging victorious was to appreciate our efforts and thank Peter Obi. But because we're black, they didn't find us worthy. Bunch of racist betrayers!"
However, some observers suggested that it might be too early to draw conclusions, speculating that Starmer could have thanked Obi privately. "Guys, I don't think it's right to conclude Obi was betrayed just yet," said Pastor Ogbu. "It's true Obi endorsed him publicly, and Starmer ought to appreciate and thank Obi publicly as well, but it's possible he already did that in private and Obi is fine with it. Obi hasn't even complained. Let's wait for instructions and avoid the temptation of premature conclusions," he added, while checking his phone for any new secret endorsement deals on Twitter.
In an unexpected twist, reports have emerged that supporters of North Korea's supreme leader, Kim Jong-un, are now wooing Peter Obi for an endorsement to help the dictator win his next "election." "We have seen the power of Obi's tweets," said a North Korean spokesperson. "If he can end 14 years of conservative rule in the UK with one tweet, imagine what he can do for our Supreme Leader. We are willing to pay him in nuclear warheads or unlimited bottles of Hero beer, whichever he prefers."
Is this supposed to be a thing? There was no how on this God given earth that Obi's tweet cause labor to win this round of elections
These is wisdom here. What he purposefully omitted is the show of loving more than. The mumu woman would keep giving stress cos wh feels abandoned so he has to just show he does. No man can love his side chick more than his daughter. It's just not justifiable but if he shows it, the lady would give less stress
GrandBroz: I have seen people argue about this issue alot and while some guys say they can wash the underwear of their partner some other guys see it as disgusting or degrading.
A woman’s bréast that was cut off due to cancer grew back two weeks after. I don’t blame the doubts, some of these miracles in our midst are difficult to believe.” — Pastor Adeboye
If I didn't create that time to find out, I will still be in the dark right now eating her lies. I will not know the kind of girl I'm dating. I'm giving her space and also cutting my share right now and I'm not giving her my money. And I believe the reason she's till with me is that she knows, she doesn't lack anything from me. And I know if I stop giving her money and caring for her she will go
Then enjoy it while it lasts. Enjoy it all and get her out of your system. If you don't when she goes you will start having heart pains from what must have been. That what must have been would eat any person alive. It's not a place you want to be in.
I met this girl on a app, we vibe, our talking stage does not last up to 3 weeks before we started dating, we were in the same school, she cook different dishes for me, send me her cooked food if she's not at my place. She gave me her phone password herself, she came clean and I fell deeply in love.
Afer one month of our relationship things was going smoothly until one day she asked me to do something on her phone and I saw a video of her on her gallery, she did the video in a guy car. I asked her she said it's her memory on snap, I told her to open her snap so I can confirm, immediately she confess and told me she went out with a friend that the guy ask her to help to buy something in the market. (And I confirmed the road, it's a market road). I believed her and I moved on. And since that day I always pretend that I forgot her password. Fastward, after second month of our dating it was my birthday. She bought gift for me she spent almost 60k, (she was in her final year ) I was wowed because no girl has ever done that for me. But before my birthday I have spent more than x3 of that for her. In btw she call me a lover boy that no one has ever loved her the way I do. Fastward to the next month, it was the month we will have a break on school, she started getting strict with her phone, I told her to open her phone, she insist and she told me she doesn't want me to get jealous that she had friends she used to call baby, I wasn't Cool with that and that got me thinking and overthinking. But I'm deeply in love. After some days she would not want to have sex with me, she later told me they had a vision to her that she should not have sex for now, i asked her till when she said when she get parent home she will know. Well I believed her and move on. She went home and it was coming to the end of the month, and In our talking stage she told me her dad can't say no, because we have differences in religion and she made it clear to me that religion differences can't stop her from getting married to me. So when she went home she called me and told me that " sometimes we don't always get what we want" that in my relationship with her, her dad might not approve it and she doesn't want to stop having me around her, that she's not breaking up but she's just letting me know. I felt a pain in my heart, I was like what is this. We talked and I moved on. But I started having mixed feelings, so I got a new number and I sent her a message as a customer so she can add the number up on Whatsapp.
She came back to school early the next month and it was her birthday month. I bought her a bone straight hair ( she told me that was the first time a guy will buy her a bone straight). But I have bought her the hair few days to her birthday. She slept at my place a day before her birthday. On her birthday she went to her side and she told me she wanted to go out with her female friends, which I know them. (So that night before she left my place she straightened that bone straight I bought for her on my head. ) she left In the morning. So i opened what'sapp number she added as a customer started monitoring her status and comparing it with my main WhatsApp account she knows. I started see differences in her post. She lied, she went out with a guy... She blocked me on my main WhatsApp from seeing all the sensitive pictures she posted. ( The guy gave her flower, she snapped in the guys car, and took her on a date). Around 7:30pm I called her pretending asking her how is her outing going with her friends, shey answer it's going well, I told her to flip the camera that I wanted to see her friends she hang up. I called her back she went to the restroom to pick the call, she gaslighted me, I ended the call. Around 9pm I called her she won't pick, I called severally, she didn't pick. She later sent me a message on Whatsapp that her phone is about to die that we will talk the following day and she says goodnight. The following morning, I called her and I asked her to meet me in school. I showed her a recording of her status, she was shocked and I broke up with her immediately. I left her and I went home. On my way home she started calling severally I picked and she said " did I come to disgrace her in front of her friends" I sweared for her, and hang up and she later call me that night telling me it was a male friend she knew before we met that theres nothing btw them, that since i said I'm not going to take her out on her birthday, that the guy offered and she can't tell me, that is just normal friend date and that she slept at her place that night. The love I have for her was controlling me, I really do love her dearly, after like 5 relationships, I met her and everything changed I fell in love deeply, she's the only one that mealt my heart. After a lot of begging I took her back, but my trust getting more deteriorate, I started checking her phone in the midnight whenever she was asleep. I did my findings very well and I deduce she went out with her ex.. Immediately I started feeling she's using me to get over the hearth break she got from her ex, (because she told me in taking stage how she cried almost 3 months when she broke up with her ex, and I asked her then and she said she's over it , that she moved on already ) I didn't confront her immediately I was playing along, so I went deep in my findings and I find out she has been talking to her ex before she went home for holiday and her ex was the one who she followed to the market. And towards the period she was at home they stated calling themselves on video call. (So I deduce the reason why she told me "we don't always get what we want something times" that her dad might not allow us to get married) So after some days I confronted her and she confess that it was her ex she went out with. And she told me that the guy is traveling out of the country and he wanted to go on a last date with her that nothing happened btw them. Fastward, I was still checking her phone in the midnight time to time. Her ex traveled, and she deleted his number from her phone. I was shocked when I saw that I didn't know the reason why she did that. For like 2 weeks she they won't talk, whenever they talk it's just hi how are you doing. So I confronted her and I told her everything she has been doing, she told me she made that mistake of going out with her ex that I should forgive her, that she doesn't know what she was doing, that the guy really messed up with her. So I wanted to know if she slept at her ex place on her birthday night, so I lied to her that I cheated on her with my ex, and she confess that she slept at her ex place and they had sex twice, and that he forced the guy to use condom (lol). And she begged that she made a terrible mistake that she thinks they will get back together. Because it's barely two months we started dating that she doesn't know if I'm serious with her. And that she's not a cheater that she's in a state of dilemma then. I asked her to block her ex she did immediately. The ex messaged her with another number after 3 days she blocked him, her ex told her to have a good life that he sees that he blocked him, she said she deleted the message with the number with no reply. My whole findings and everything took up to 4 months now we are 7 months together. I broke up with her last week she started begging and crying that I should give her a second chance and she promised I will not regret it that she really do love me. I told her the level of the trust I have for her has reduced. she asked me what can she do to amend things and she wants to prove herself.
Questions 1. If it was you can you forgive her and give her a second chance? If not, please give reasons. 2. And if you have ever given your gf a second chance, does it work out ? .
Thanks In advance for your honest response.
Na wah for people. I mean with the way the exchange rate is right now, I find it impossible to believe that some people have time and expense to spare for an unfaithful partner. That lady is just using you to spare time. Once what she wants comes, she will litter you. Am sure you know that. So for the time she is wth you cut your share but don't give your heart. Be nice, friendly and generous to her as much as you want for the time she stays with you. Use condom so she don't give you disease. Never give your heart.
Gistmedia10: A distraught man has taken to social media to share his shocking story of heartbreak, claiming his fiancée of several years has left him just weeks before their wedding to be with a foreigner. The wedding was reportedly set to take place on June 29th.
The man expressed his devastation and disbelief at the sudden turn of fate. "Our wedding was set on June 29th, and she just left me for a white man," he said in a heart-wrenching post.
The sudden and shocking betrayal has sparked a mix of emotions on social media, with many sympathizing with the jilted groom's pain.
The white man was probably in the picture the whole rime
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Celebration! It means they dont eat that that often, hence the urge to make videos and show other people that we are eating this today as it isnt something we eat everyday
I really dont understand why people take videos of foods eaten at fancy restaurants and for who? Guess thats a proof they dont eat such quite often cause if they do, theyd have tired out of taking this kinda pic everyday as its already a norm for the
Nothing wrong in celebrating enjoyment. Only thing wrong with it is people that will watch the video and complain
Romance / Re: 3 Types Of Women You Should Never Have S£X With No Matter What... by drnoel: 4:35am On Jul 24
