Holluwhakemmy:
After how many children? Anyway it is better for both of you to separate in order to avoid violence which may lead to something else.
I don't know why some people take their family affairs to social media

That's the Naija way, most give birth before marriage, I would have said that they should have gone for counseling but not everyone can afford that

A Nigerian man has called off his wedding plans two months after paying the bride price, attributing his decision to his fiancée’s persistent social media drama.

The announcement, made through a touching Facebook post, has garnered attention and sparked waves of discussion online.

The heartbroken groom, whose identity remains undisclosed, expressed deep regret over the failed relationship, citing several reasons for the cancellation.

Among the key reasons he provided, the man highlighted that his fiancée often compared him unfavorably to other men.

Additionally, he revealed that this was not the first time they had faced issues, and that his fiancée frequently took to social media platforms like Facebook and TikTok to air their grievances.

In his words:

‘’I regret of doing this. I curs£ the day I agree to do this. I thought she will change landed me to this $hame & di$grace.
I married an enemy in disguise of a wife.

Reasons why I cancelled & regret this:

– I married a woman who compare me with other men

– This is not the first time we will have issues and she we come on live stream either by Facebook or Tiktok.

– A married woman said she wan go knack on top bride price.

Am not perfect either, but going to social media to talk down on me for 5 hours on tiktok is and unimaginable thing I can’t let go.
So many words have been said in the open. I can’t continue to live with a lousy woman in the name of a wife. My sincere apologies to all our fans and supporters that saw the recent tragedy and feel disappointed.
My supportive lovers pls forgive us. And to all the social media presenters, bloggers, motivational speakers both who gave their opinions on this issue negatively or positively, I say thank you.

I write this note to inform you all that our marriage in Oct 6.2024 can’t hold anymore because it is now shown & seen that we are both not compatible to lead a home.
But I am going for co-parenting to at least make my children proud for they are all we have got on this journey of 6 years.
And on this note she cease to be my wife & no one should pls address her as one henceforth. Man propose God dispose.’

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Savedday2:
Madam, keep your story to yourself. Who no know 9ja girls?

The pastor caught you doing ashawo work and he ask the SIMP to reconsider and he dump your useless ass.

9ja girls! They are all the same. The day they will stop ashawo, that day, the world will end. Very Useless set of gender.

Omo this one is personal beef

Xscape047:
The world turned up

Lol like you have no idea, this is what happens when money is talking you should see the highlights the event the clothing🤩 everything was just legit👌

The Ambani family, known for their wealth and influence, hosted a wedding that redefined opulence and left the world in awe. Anant Ambani, the youngest son of India's wealthiest family, tied the knot with his long-term girlfriend, Radhika Merchant, in an event that has more than one continent talking. This six-month wedding celebration has made the Ambani family a popular topic of discussion at meals and gatherings everywhere.

Indian weddings are often extravagant, but the Ambani celebration has outshone even royal events with its grand scale. For context, Prince William's wedding to Kate Middleton was estimated to cost around $34M, which is a small fraction of the cost of the Ambani's wedding.

The guest list read like a who's who of the entertainment and business world. Rihanna performed her first full concert in nearly eight years, captivating the audience with her iconic hits. Other celebrities in attendance included Beyoncé, who delivered a private performance, and Bollywood royalty like Shah Rukh Khan and Deepika Padukone, adding a touch of glamour and star power to the occasion.

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Coolsat:
He may even connect him to one of his ex he couldn't marry, some of these pastors na case. That's why I no dy like all these connecting with someone through friends pastors or whatever because some are so bad hearted to connect you with their favorite ex that they couldn't marry and hide it from you. I actually know someone connecting his secret girlfriend to his friend for marriage.

At the end of the day it's advice, not everything you'll take i just because it's a pastor dosen't mean their always right.

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Chochovini:
. Oh! Sorry Dear, I got busy, hence d delay in reply.
Ok, U rily wanna knw wat happened?

Lol what is going on here

Treasure17:
It's a big red flag.

Some red flags don't hide but still people still carry it🤦

PJtech:
Love or infatuation

Does love even exist

I can say that love is not something that you get instantly but grow over time

I loved a guy so much that I was ready to turn my back on my family. I know you might be judging me already, but trust me, if you have ever been in love, you will understand.

I met Jidekene in my second year in school when I tried sneaking into a lecture that had already begun 30 minutes ago. The lecturer, Mr. Akpan was a strict man who had zero tolerance for lateness, and once he entered a lecture hall, no one else could enter.

That day, I left my house early because he had already announced in his previous class that he would be giving a test. Just as I got to my junction and climbed onto a bike, my skirt tore. A kind lady gave me a wrapper, so I tied it around me and rushed home to change.

On getting to school, I realized that Mr. Akpan was about to give the test, and the small lecture hall was full. I quickly sneaked into the last seat and acted as if I had been there since the beginning. He noticed and asked for me to be identified, but Jidekene insisted that no one had entered and that, in fact, the movement he noticed was me trying to pick up my paper that had fallen towards the door. From that day on, Jidekene and I became close friends.

In no time, we started dating, and Jidekene was just the best guy any lady could think of. He was sweet, understanding, and romantic but also very controlling. He monitored my movements and always wanted to be involved in my business. I never saw it as anything negative because I interpreted it as him being protective of what he cherished, which was me😏, and not wanting any harm to come my way. I felt special. A year later, after we graduated, he asked me to marry him💍. That was the happiest day of my life.

However, as time went on, I began to see the darker side of his controlling nature...

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Emmanuel909090:
You should be ashamed of yourself, you married a dead man's wife and you are also proud ao drag his property. That property is meant for his kids.

if for anything it is oh I mean the dead man probably left it for his children

Sapasenator:
Adon talk tire but people nor gree listen to me.

Never hurry to marry
Never hurry to give birth after marriage
Born only one child, the couple can focus on their careers.
This way, marriage can be very sweet.

true

dhiqson:
"have you met me?? I'm too good"...



Read that part
And i knew the pastor was right

.

lol sha this is a red flag

Lalami3232:
Should we tell him?

he already knows

Rouxel:
Great exposure, indeed gone far.

she's playing her cards well

KingLennon:

You are not totally wrong but never conclude . The way to a man's heart will forever be throuqh the stomach

You're not wrong here oh but it's the same with everybody one act of kindness can go a long way

RZArecta:
You are in a friends with benefits situationship so therefore, behave as such

You've said it all

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Allenmuller:
She has been giving him food just,only ,because she see's potentials in him nothing much than that .

You never know she might just be a good samaritan😄

James4358:
I believe my neighbor is reading this.

Lol🤣

BeyondCertainty:
This man has a scarcity mindset.

Money can't keep a woman.

It is not an insult giving her number to other men since you are yet to marry her.

Don't buy that stupid idea of 'privacy' check her phone anytime you want to.
You'd only be saving yourself from a lot of problems.

Why give a woman that some every month? Insecurity! yeah.

Tbh the 30k in this economy sef nor reach

Nigerian man cries out for advice as he complains over girlfriend’s habit of giving out her number to other men, despite being in a relationship with him.

The man made his complaint known in a post on Facebook relationship platform.

According to the man he and his girlfriend had been dating for two and a half years.

During this time, because of her frustrating behaviour he had put her on a 30K monthly allowance but she keeps displaying a troubling behaviour.

He stated that his girlfriend always gives out her number freely to other men.

When he confronted her, she opined that he hasn’t married her yet so she’s free to do as he likes.

The man has come online to seek advice from social media users over his puzzling issue.

He wrote …

“I am fed up of my Gf behaviors.. its been 2 and half years now we’ve been dating… I try all my best to satisfy her. I even considered giving her 30k monthly maybe she will change. But all to no avail.. she love giving out her number if guy approach her… how can she be in a serious relationship with me and still giving out her number. That’s an insult to me.

She doesn’t even allow me check her phone.. she always say I haven’t marry her. So she is free… I am tired of her. Her mum knows me a lot. She knows I am the only guy dating her. We love each other a lot. But I don’t want to share her with someone else.. my friend advise me to go and lock her in alfa place. So she will love only me. But I want to seek advise before doing anything.. I will read all comments..”

Nigerian lady overwhelmed with excitement as the neighbour she usually gives free food makes her his wife.

The exited lady, Big Sonia took to her TikTok page to express happiness over getting married.

She revealed that before she got married, she used to live with her partner as neighbours.

According to her, she usually brings food to him and their connection started off from there.

She was filled with happiness after he proposed and made her his wife.

In a clip shared by the lady, she could be seen posing with her partner as they prepare to walk down the aisle.

She wrote:

“My neighbour turn husband. Try dey give your neighbor food Naso I take see husband.”

so I saw the story today and I can't stop laughing about it. So it goes👇

I'm 53 years and my wife is 49 the issue that brought me here is my wife's properties I married this woman three years ago she lost a husband when she was 42 and I met her with three kids the late husband left her five houses and three big farms which are doing well for a year now I have been asking my wife to at least change two houses and put my name on them so that in case I die my kids and my family can inherit she has refused

I need advice I'm frustrated ?

this man is frustrated because his wife of three years will not change two of her properties and put his name on it like like why don't you build your own build your you want your kids and your family to inherit someone's hard work is he entitled to this because they are married and people are saying if it was the other way around,if it was a woman asking for it and people would have supported it.

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These blind faith in pastors have to Stop because of faith now pastors have also turned to relationship counselors

emperor4love:
De guy nd de pastor run una collabo

Lol 🤣

Pastor Faith Oyedepo, the wife of Bishop David Oyedepo, cautions single men and women as she speaks about why they shouldn’t feel pressured to marry.

The wife of the general overseer of the Living Faith Church gave some pertinent advice to men and women who are still searching for their missing half.

Pastor Faith Oyedepo urged the singles never to be in a hurry or be pressured to get married.

She also warned people not to ‘manage’ to marry, as it doesn’t always end well.

According to her, those who have done the above had ended up in regrets.

The clergywoman added that a really good catch doesn’t always make a good match.

Her words …

“Those of you who are still single, don’t marry under pressure. Don’t manage to marry and don’t hurry to marry

Because those who do end up in regret. You just understand that a really good catch may not make a really good match.”

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Nigerian lady, Ada Seraphina Okoro, has shared her journey of healing and forgiveness after her fiancé ended their relationship because his pastors said she wasn’t the one for him.

In a Facebook post on July 17, 2024, Ada revealed that the pastors’ declaration came after she refused an invitation from one of them to visit Nekede.

Ada stated that the heartbreak had been so intense and debilitating for her, and she only pulled through due to those around her who kept consoling her.

She has now moved beyond anger, hate, and regrets, embracing a path of forgiveness and personal growth.

Her words …

“Sharing my story without any grudge whatsoever and I do not want anyone to use the care button or pity me… I have healed and I have moved on

It will be in your best interest to learn from it and to not ask me personal questions aside what I’d drop here. No one fo.rced me to share this, I’m sharing this because I want to and for someone out there to learn too.

My last serious relationship ended because my fiancé pastors gave the order that I wasn’t the one for him… He met these pastors when he had financial issues and we resulted to prayers.

Mind you, this message came after the pastor visited Nekede and I was in IMSU then, asked me to come see him in Nekede and I declined.

That was when he did everything possible to end my relationship and he did. I never told my fiancé then about this until years later when he came to ask for forgiveness.

When this relationship ended, two things filled my heart, regret and fear. Regret for telling other men away. There’s one of my suitors then here, he’s my follower, this guy chased me for years even when he knew I was in a serious relationship but I declined because I was being loyal, like I said, it’s my curse, I can’t date more than one person

Today he’s married and if the tables were turned and if given the opportunity, he still love to get married to me… But what’s not meant to be is not meant to be, you can’t fo.rce it.


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Singer Ayra Starr has been spotted in a video having an exciting encounter in Rome with Hollywood actor Will Smith.

She joined Will and other glitzy individuals at a stylish rooftop location on Monday, July 15, after giving an amazing performance at a Coldplay show.

She was wearing a daring crop top and shorts that bared her midriff and accentuated her glow.

She embraced the father of three, expressing her joy at their long-awaited encounter, and the atmosphere buzzed with excitement.

Will Smith was also wearing a brown outfit to match her energy and facilitated lively conversations about both personal experiences and more general subjects of interest.

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