There seems to be a global economic recession.
Inflation is everywhere
I'm not sure riots are the way out. Cos it won't change the fact that there is a recession
Peaceful protests, yes. But not riots
And all these anti-riot police killing people are just making things worse
Everywhere you look, there is war and protests. No peace anywhere

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All of them should gettat
Tell your wife what's up, and to ask her siblings to stop coming so regularly.
Once every few months is fine.
They probably miss their mother, so Mama too has to go and they can see her in their house
Your wife can either do the work herself or you invite your own mother to come and do Omugwo too.
Infact, tell them your mother or aunt will be coming to spend time with you guys and the baby too.
So it would be somehow for both mothers to be around.
Let them bounce. No hard feelings

Sagacity10:

The bank is a financial Institution. The church is not. The church is where we seek and get spiritual, moral, social and Godly relationship with one another. The two are different one to another. She guffed seriously. Mind you, that was not the only offense against her. As the wife of a top pastor, To invite flavour to come and perform at her birthday. The wife of a regional Pastor of RCCG. Do u know what height that is in the hierarchy of the RCCG..? As such she's a role model to a lot of people, a lot of women etc. I stand with the church. If you want to serve an organization , you must learn to abide by the rules and regulation guiding and guarding such organizations. Don't bring sentiment to the matter

What's wrong with Flavour?
Is he Satan's spawn?
Or would it have been better if Sunny Ade was invited instead?
She was having a personal celebration, it was not a church event. So she can invite whoever she likes to come perform. Christians listen to different songs too, and enjoy all the Kizz Daniel's, Korede Bello etc songs
And if the Pastoe was sacrificed because of inviting Flavour to his party, what concerns Wigwe's matter in the whole brouhaha then?
Rejoice with those rejoicing and mourn with those who mourn- Romans 12 vs 15
Both can coexist- mourning and rejoicing.
While some are mourning, some others are rejoicing. That's life.
Of course the bank is a financial institution who lost their CEO. The church, a religious institution did lose some members in America (the Wigwe's).
However, I'm sure many members of same church have passed over the years.
Why are we not insisting other activities stop to mourn them?
We're only concerned about Wigwe because he was an elite.
'All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others', I guess (Animal Farm- George Orwell)

Sagacity10:
. Na because of people like you that why Nigeria keep churning out people without natural affection for their fellow men. And that is one major reason why our religion practices are devoid of power because men lack sincere and genuine love. Love is not selfish. Love show empathy. The Iluyomade's are Wigwes pastor. Ki day hold your peace if you don't know what u are saying.

Wigwe was not the only member of theirs that has passed, and isn't the only one they pastored.
Many have passed before him, and many more will pass after him
That is the cycle of life
I'm sure several other devoted, commited members who gave their time to the church but may not have had his level of wealth and influence have died in that same church but I guess their lives are not as important as Wigwes and nobody deemed it worthy to cancel anything for them.
The only reason this is an issue is because Wigwe was an elite.
Hypocrisy no go finish una

Who asked you to speak for Flavour?
You people talk too much
I'm sure Flavour will have a PA or media team to speak for him, if he was asked and wanted to address this.
Stop speaking on behalf of grown men/women.
If you want to address insecurity, do so without bringing out a grown man's business
That's how misinformation spreads

Sagacity10:
His wife should have simply postponed her birthday to at least after the burial or 6 months after.
When a man marries a woman like Jezebel that controls his life, this kind d of ending is inevitable. Pastor Iluyomade has labored in the city of David project to have allowed his wife go on with her birthday at that sensitive period where an integral family of the church was mourning

I don't believe she should have postponed her celebration.
She's not their relative.
Even their business- He was CEO of a bank, did not close for a day.
We like hypocrisy a lot.

mastermaestro:


Do you know what it means for three members of one family to die horrifically in a church? Unless you have lost your humanity, church programmes for that period would be canceled or postponed. We are not even talking about church programmes but a private birthday celebration done so loudly and lavishly to the distaste of the grieving family.

I used to fancy the said pastor because of the way he ran interactive services. After this event however, I lost all respect for him. What they did was disgusting! If it was in the developed world, that parish would have been totally boycotted.

Their action goes to show how little value we place on human lives in this part of the world.

I understand.
But this was a private celebration, and nothing to do with the church, even
Like I said, unless they were really close to the family, cancelling their own celebration should not be expected.
I've seen cases where a parent has died and their children still went ahead with the already planned wedding celebration.
Infact, a few examples of terrible tragedies where several family members have died in accidents while travelling for the wedding ceremony of their children, and the ceremony still went ahead albeit the couple appeared sombre.
The wedding was not cancelled because of this
How much more someone not related to them?
When people we love die, we want scape goats and someone to pay for their deaths and we hold on tight to any possible scape goat.
This pastor and his wife were just that, in my opinion.
I'm not even a fan of the Pastor or his wife, and believe she's just a loud woman, but that's not a crime. That's definitely no reason to want them to pay for Wigwe's death.

Skydivine:
People would say he proposed the parish under the grace of the GO . However, they must be something in him that attracts super rich people.
Someone that has dined and wine with mighty of the society is not just an everyday guy. He is not a push over.
Envy is the bedrock of this backlash. So many woujd want that position but a very few can sustain it .
May God not let us build for another to occupy.

He's not the first pastor of City of David and COD has been there long before he was made the senior pastor
Their former pastor passed away- Pastor Eskor or something.
Although, I personally don't see the crime committed by going ahead with their party.
Maybe insensitive if the families were really close, but I'm not privy to that information
But it is what it is
I'm sure many other less prominent members have passed over the years and planned activities were not postponed or stopped...

Oya Limpopo

It was not even a Royal visit
It was to discuss hosting the Invictus games
At least, these people are not working Royals, so why is the British media so pained?
Awon Osinwin

It would have been great if this was for looters and those who treasonously steal from the public coffers

ihavesense:

Do you know that as a lawfully wedded wife, she and the man’s children have a right to inheritance of his wealth. So why the fuss.

Then the properties can also be only in her name.

Goats are so stubborn
And very expensive in South Africa
He's lucky no be Naija guys catch am

Real meets real

Build 2 houses/flats in the same compound and each woman will have their own space

Many people in the police force are mentally unstable. They really should be doing thorough psychological assessments of their officers/recruits before giving them a job
Very unhinged set of people

How can cultism be stopped in our tertiary schools?
You find them in primary and secondary schools now.
I learnt even on the streets amongst illiterates, they have them too.

Everybody should gettat
Ans people should stop involving his wife
She's an adult and can decide to stay with her husband.
Not anyone's business

Morenikeji090:
Wait first. Is it only Israel dat help herself. Na American, uk, France warship dat assist Israel if it was only Israel baba they go fell the heat well ooo

Yes, their allies -NATO were present and also helped neutralise the missiles
One can never overestimate the importance of forming alliances.
Very 'importanter', especially if you're a small (but mighty) nation like Isreal

Basicend:
Israel needs to calm down and not stretch itself by fighting multiple wars same time.

This war with Iran will affect global oil output since Russia is already fighting one with Ukraine.

God will bring peace to that region.

If Israel goes to war with Iran, America also goes to war with Iran.

Iran's intern nuclear plant project will be destroyed and I tell you Iran will suffer it more and quickly.

Your own na global oil input, with all that's on ground.... 😭
I guess every mallam with him kettle
Anyway, it will help boost Nigeria's oil in the international market, if Iran can't supply oil.....
Non of the nations are innocent in that middle east. Plus the Isreal, Iran, Palestine and their other neighbors all Beefing themselves
Truly, at this point, na only God fit help them resolve their multitude of issues

babajero:
Ladies should be more productive and stop following every guy that promises them things, most especially these so called hook up babes that don't want to be called ash'awo but do worst than ash'awo

You mean men should be more productive and stop following every guy that promises them things
This gang do not deal with ladies at all, and only deal with healthy looking men like you.
I see nobody is asking about the dressing of the victims in question

kalemy:
I hope he dies on the operating table. This is what too much freedom brings.

Why would you even wish death on a human like you, because he says he wants to be a hermaphrodite?
He may not align with your cultural or even religious beliefs, but that shouldn't be a reason to wish him death...
Your heart seems dark

MsJackson:

Yes I'm teaching now thanks. All and I mean all his family members have blocked my access to them both online and offline. It saddens my heart greatly. I have left the battle to God. Because how can all of them just hate me based on one sided story of my husband? NOT ONE OF THEM ALLOWED ME TO NARRATE MY SIDE OF THE STORY. They listened to him only and passed judgement. Even a criminal or murderer is allowed their day in court. But I have been judged and found wanting by them. I pray God heals my heart.

God will heal you.
Just give it time.
Try your best to be financially stable, as I'm almost certain he is not financially supporting your child together.
Don't miss any opportunity you see to better yourself.
Wishing you the best, and strenght to face any challenges ahead

MsJackson:
He has thrown my things and my child's things out finally and another woman has moved in. Thank you guys.

Sorry to hear that
Hope you've found something else doing, ad per another Job

One is a direct flight, the other involves a stop over.
It's expected for the direct flight to be more expensive.
Compare prices between airlines that do direct flights like Virgin, BA

Kajaard:


The boldfaced, a woman in her early 50s is not a young woman. She is a middle aged woman.

She is whatever she thinks she is
She can claim to be a teenager sef at 50

Lying about giving medication especially insulin, antibiotics when you have not can have serious consequences for patients.
As a health care worker, you find yourself going above and beyond in ensuring your patients have the best care possible.
Don't let your actions or inactions contribute to their demise
And please, never put yourself in a situation where you will tell lies in the health care settings.
You can never win that battle

Mad people just full everywhere

Kingosytex:
This brouhaha has turned Pastor Yul to a complete clown
No be only skit, go feature Sabinus na
Make I see how court wan take nail am for bigamy. Yul is an Igbo man with Igbo man sense

May never filed for Bigamy, though.
So that's not the contention.
If push comes to shove, Yul can't deny the traditional marriage to Judy, as there are witnesses and I'm sure pictures to that effect.
Not everyone will lie in court
With regards to the adultery charges against Judy, that's easy to prove. They have 2 children together, and I'm sure Yul won't be stupid enough to deny his children before the courts.
He just needs to sign the divorce papers, and let everyone move on