Merry Xmas 2 all nairalander's especially Yimitun $ Bebe2007!

Am in one right now and i think its working pretty ok. the lady is in Delta state while am in Abj, how we make it work is that she comes over every other month for about a week or two, and we call each other like several times every day. its a tough thing though cos there are sometimes wen you want to be with ur lurv and shes not there. anywayz am tryin to get a bigger apartment and meet her parents so she can alwayz be around more often - like parmanently . i guess what made it work is the committment and communication.

na wah oh, take it easy at least you are not under any pressure. maybe with time you will get there. its not a must that you have to be attracted to him at the beginning.

Bobo Andre
AFSS Ikeja '98 Set.

lala how we sure say u sef no dey naija dey form say u dey outside the coiuntry. i wonder why u guyz are not proud of this country and ve to lie.

@ young-nigg, you 4got that a lair must has a good memory

@ dramanelly,
this things do happen even in advance countries and the militants are just taking advantage of the FG's gently approach to the situation, i believe if the govt give the go ahead the military would wipe them out in les than 3 days. ask the pple in odi or zaki biam they will tell you.
for those in the crisis area i think the best thing you guyz can do if u want ur normal lives back is to provide the authorities with info on militant movements and activities they would know what to do about it. you shd know that they are not magicians and need info frm the public to act. thats were advanced countries differ frm naija they support their security forces unlike the average nigerian.

emmeno abi you dey find someone to date on naira land so you need their pictures to peruse and comment. talk true

i think u shd play him and get the green card, but be careful cos he might be using the green card scope to keep fucking you 4 free. what i mean is that he might not have a plan of getting the green card for you in the first place and could just be staging you. any how good luck

seun what are you waitin for u ought to give militia a life ban from this forum she is corrupting all the good gals

seun what are you waitin for u ought to give militia a life ban from this forum she is corrupting all the good gals

is that you in the first pics

that picture of the sun setting is of world class quality. i like it.

@ everbright
please be a least patriotic. ask fellow naira landers in europe some of those countries u guyz freak about if you go outside the capital its no bettere than niaja. abi a lie. nigeria na we country we must to do beta for am, instead of condemning the country why not look for means of moving it forward and it starts with you and I

that picture of the sun setting is of world class quality. i like it everbright please be a least patriotic. ask fellow naira landers in europe some of those countries u guyz freak about if you go outside the capital its no bettere than niaja. abi a lie. nigeria na we country we must to do beta for am, instead of condemning the country why not look for means of moving it forward and it starts with you and I

ehn Eko for show, but i ve not seen any pictures of Danfos and molues. abeg make una show us Danfo

i think i might be of help to you i have pig and fish farms in Lagos, Ifo (ogun state) and Abuja.
i would be trilled to be of help to a fellow Nairaland user

you can contact me on 08033069959 or 08077226697 my email addresses are jacbethconsults@yahoo.com or tunbosunandre@yahoo.co.uk

@ babycakes
I am going to be straight with you, take everything this man says to you at face value, tread lightly! if you were my sister, i would ask you to leave him because i can see some signs of a man who doesnt want to commit. "Dont rush me", "wait and see", I don't know about anyone else, but when a man starts saying these words, Nigerian or not, it is clear this man is not ready to commit. The ball is in your court, if you are moving to canada like you said, then enjoy the relationship while it lasts and be on your merry way. I know a lot of people are being careful about saying the wrong thing, but i will tell you straight, He wont marry you! Igbo men like to marry Igbo women! end of story!

i completely agree with babycakes only igbo guys that were bred out side igbo land could be different and they like their gals to be submissive. by the way u ve actually been with him for 2 yrs so u shd kno him better. and u ve not been sincere 2 urself. try answering this questions and them u shd kno were u are headed- if he asks you to come 2 niaja with him are you ready to follow him. and you have plans of ur own to move to canada is he aware and can he leave his family biz to be in canada with you. both of you shd have cultivated a habit of communicating when the relatiopnship was still quite yount.

its true its ur call but going by the list of qualities you gave of ur girls i think you shd choose No 1.

naija pple na wa o you can never satify this guyz to the extent that you scrutinized the AD to the very last detail, you get time o come to think of it i never noticed maybe am used to the haphazard treatment we get from nigerian service provider's

to me i don't think there is any thing wrong with being a house wife though it shd be on mutual agreement and provided the guy can foot the bills. but there days the women folk want to be self reliant i dont blame them it is allowed

i quite agree with seun and b-boy you should take the matter to the police because there is no guarantee she would give you back the documents even after you pay her the money. but be careful how you deal with Nigerian policemen ooh because "policeman go see white he go say that thing na red"

Hi, evryone am Tunbosun based in Abuja what can i say its good to be onboard

the Guy is a typical African man from the stone age. anyway we dont kno ur age that would have helped diagonize ur problem. this days pple have changed as adults Male/female if u see some thing you like, just go for it whats the fronting all about I prefer girls that are open minded and go for what they want. when i asked my fiancee out initially i was suprised that she did not give me any problems she also confessed that she liked me and things just gelled for both of us but believe you me i couldn't sleep with her until about 7 months later.

Another Gemini in the house i lurv my star thats why its my my screen name. was born june 7, 1980. also have someone with the same birthday and year at my office we are so into each other and evry body calls us twins. i guess we Gemini's has a lot in common.

@white shark:Though they say there are 2 kinds: the outspoken, strong, stubborn ones and the calm, humble, tolerant,weak ones.

i think am a combination of the 2 though am not in anyway weak

i like kissin a lot and get angry when my girl friend does not want it but she has started learning that am a kissing freak sha. i dont even kno which one i like beta kissin or sex

Mei think its too early in a relationship for him to slap you(though he is not supposed to at all) but I dont agree with seun at all i think u shld give him a second chance and a very serious warning maybe he has a bad temper give him a second chance and both of you shld pray about it

there is nothing wrong with marrying a househelp, only that these days guyz prefer to marry someone that would not be a liability in future. so as you make preparations to marry her also make plans to send her to school or empower her so she wont be so much of a burden. because future no dey house girl ooh. nd dont mind ur parents some would even tell you, u cant marry from a particular tribe.

me i dont think its because ur mom does not have a hubby, cos my mom is like that too. though she has chilled now and i dont see her so often (i ve grown older and stay on my own now) however, at the end am always glad she was harsh at the time cos i would have been way-ward or might have dropped out of school. but now am a responsible man thanx to madam thacher

i guess thats how it is wit most gals, the whole Nairaland don warn u and i believe a word is enough for the wise