and this too



well i guess its complicated but some part of the African culture and Nigerians in general behave in ways that would make u wonder.

Maybe because some are brought up to actually think that beign a woman is a disadvantage.
Here are some of the things some nigerians believe about men and women that sometimes influnces the way he thinks because thatz whatz obtainable where he grew up. As a man he might feel like

1 I don't have to worry about beign devalued after having sex once.

2 I am not regarded as beign of higher value because ive not had sex and of lower value if i have sex once

3 I don't have to stick and cling to an abusive marriage because i fear that no other man will want someone that another man has used and devalued

4 I don't have to worry about living the rest of my life without good sex because even if i don't have good chemistry with my wife, i can always have hot sexy momas outside giving me the real rubbish

5 I can always sleep with 42 women and marry virgin and if she is boring in bed, i will have like 3 mistresses outside who will blow my mind

WHAT A WONDERFUL WORLD THE NIGERIAN MAN LIVES IN

So when he mixes up with women from other places, having been told that a woman having sex once devalues her, he finds it incomprehensible that a woman would be intrested in a man just for physical reasons.

He wants a submissive wife and a freaky mistress because he comes from a place where it is obtainable.

If his house and his car would be taken away from him (including part of his accounts) too like itz done in the west for infidelity, i don't know anyone will still be thinking like that.

@TaniCarr

i posted this while you were away. i just thought i will bring it to your attention. Always good to have it at the back of your mind.

U said Nigerians believe that sex matters should be kept for marriage, well not strictly. It should be if u are a woman.

@TaniCarr

Ive followed your posts and i was quite impressed when u said that u knew how to cook some nigerian dishes eg Egusi. Looks like u have an open mind mind towards other cultures. It seems u are really intrested in Nigerians
  That said, if u want to do things do them because its what u want to do 4 yourself. Seems like all the things u do are influenced by what the Naijas do. Well if u finally end up with a Naija man u should be straight but always have this in mind

IN NIGERIA THE WORLD OF A MAN IS DIFFERENT FROM THE WORLD OF A WOMAN.

for eg in your church now u have had to stay away from sex totally in order to build up your reputation
Does any man in the church have to do that for even a day in order to build up a reputation, NO Y? because he is a man
U mentioned something about your not beign a virgin beign a kind of a bad mark on u in their eyes.
is it so for any of the guys NO Y? because he is a man.

As long as u realize that that u have to be under certain behavourial confines because u are a woman then u are ready to deal with life with Nigerians in general. Goodluck too

Heard Gilardino made the miss of the season. Borriello played but i heard he also made a crucial miss. I wonder, looks like Milan are in trobule

Hey you guys should read what a former England international has to say about the English squad. I did not know an English man could be this sincere about the Three tootless Lions


@Jackal i think u should read this. England is a bunch of Crappy Mediocare players all elevated by the press.



http://soccernet.espn.go.com/columns/story?id=384996&root=england&cc=5739

Omo Milan need a striker or two and real bad. Its now at crisis point. I cant even remember when last our strikers scored. Kaka cant score in every game so they need to start acting. We need to raid for two quaity strikers. I havent seen Borriello play so i dont even know if he is will be the answer to our problems. The drought cant continue and we cant keep expecting Kaka to rescue Milan in each and every march. He tried on sunday but the bar and bad luck deprived him a goal though he was immense.
Gilardino has been so disappointing its undescribable. Inzaghi at his age is still fighting and Oliviera, i still believe he is a very good striker and all he needs is more playing time. I think for Chievo, we need to patner Oliviera and Inzaghi and let them run 4 at least 75 mins minimum

I hope Gourcuff gets back soon. But one thing is clear, Milan needs overhauling esp Def and Attack.

I heard that Milan are planing to get Sneidjer from Ajax as a long term replacement for Seedorf. Could be a good signing but i think our number one target should be Alex from PSV (since Lyon dont want to release Cris) to shore up the defence and a striker.

@hustler i dont know much about the South American guy. U think he is good enough?

I hope Milan act and Fast.

itz going to be Kaka or Pirlo

Churches should be probed and people should desist from making such stupid comments like

If they probe churches, then God will probe them. Thats is stupid.

The Efcc should probe all religious organization. If they live by the principles of what they teach, then they should not be scared of anything.

dblock:

Nahh the reason losers beat winners is not because they necessarily because they were helped by referees, i won't make excuses, but most of the time because of luck, and that's exactly what happened i just wish footbal went the way it was meant too you know big teams betin small team not the other way around, please note that i'm not implying that Italy are losers or a small team but that they are a smaller team than France

This guy, u must be a joker. Italy has a smaller team than france? What a hell of a joke.

My guy, Italy deserved two worldcups, every single step of the way.

babyosisi:

How many AA in the workplace or school do you know that come from a 2 parent household? and how many Nigerians do you know that do?

Go back 2 or 3 generations how many more come from the same situation,virtually un heard of in our grandparents days.
Stuff happens,marriages don't work out sometimes,spouses die and leave the other single but how many AA are single mothers and single parents by choice right from the get go?
By that I mean getting pregnant and having babies with baby mothers and baby fathers multiple times and see nothing wrong with it.

Marriage is valued in our soceity.
Even an abused woman does all she can to make the marriage work sometimes to her detriment I admit.
When problems arise in marriage our first port of call is to seek ways to remedy the situation not the quick exit and most Nigerians you seek counsel with will advise the same.
Americans are quick to call it quits and when you are married to someone who never had a dad,he has no example to follow.
Look at the divorce rate here.
Let me stop so far,I have more to say,I may have deviated from the topic though.

@babyosisi u acted like most Nigerians, pointing to the 'good side' of the so called culture but if i might ask

Does it not occur to you that most women stick to these marriages coz they feel (as they have been told) that they have been used and devalued and so not suitable for anyother person?

Before we climb on a high moralistic horse and judge other people lez ask ourselves this questions

1 If we are really more 'moral' does the the number of african american men who cheat outnumber the number of African men?

2 if some of the women were better placed economically like their counterparts in the west, rather than relying on their husbands, do you think that they will foot consistent infidelity? If seperation laws were toensure they get half of their husbands wealth will they still stick to the marriage? What will our divorce rate REALLY be?

IN THE WEST, MONOGAMY IS A MUST AND UNLIKE MOST AFRICAN WIVES THAT KNOW THEIR HUSBANDS HAVE MANY MISTRESSES WHO THESE MEN WILL NEVER STOP SEEING AND THESE WIVES CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT BUT SIT BACK AND ACCEPT IT. ITZ A DIFFERENT BALL GAME IN THE WEST.

kokoletz:

Men if my girl is not a virgin then she shuld forget it final.

u should ask urself if u are one first

ThoniaSlim:

@ Gentletee

really really funny  ,how most guys are saying i don't want a virgin,i don't know why some people are just hypocrites.why in their hearts they are saying (i wish i could marry a virgin)but they got to cover up by saying they do not want a virgin cause they know they can never marry one because of the wild oats they ve sowed. as for the issue of sexual compatibility its utter bullshit,i totally agree with seun on that issue.and also for whitelexi who said he would divorce his wife if she is a virgin, if God give you a good lady,just because she is a virgin.go ahead and divorce her,u hear.

. I don't think any man would lie about that. If u started this thread some of the guys who stated there views i think are now even married eg Vieira or have deflowered a girl b/4 eg Mamba so i don't think its a Myth to them. No need 4 a grown man to lie about rubbish like that on the net.

And Hypotetically speaking, its good beign a man and a disadvantage beign a woman because

1 I don't have to worry about beign devalued after having sex once.

2 I am not regarded as beign of higher value because ive not had sex (like expeience said) and of lower value if i have sex once

3 I don't have to stick and cling to an abusive marriage because i fear that no other man will want someone that another man has used and devalued

4 I don't have to worry about living the rest of my life without good sex because even if i don't have  good chemistry with my wife, i can always have hot sexy momas outside giving me the real stuff

5 I can always sleep with 42 women and marry a virgin and if she is boring in bed, i will have like 3 mistresses outside who can and will always blow my mind 

WHAT A WONDERFUL WORLD THE NIGERIAN MAN LIVES IN 

so our culture is better coz its 'disrespectful to use ur left-hand'?

We Africans always try to assume that we are more 'moral' and we 'have culture' and all that BS. When is this going to stop? . Culture that emanates from ignorance needs to be thrown out of the window.

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hey hustler it will be intresting to see how Carlo plans to put Gourcuff to use. I feel the boy is waiting to explode.

I am also wondering if that unusual formation that Spalletti was forced to use, Using a playmaker as the only (withdrawn) striker(usually Totti) and then two fast wingers (usually Mancini and Taddei) but he had a shortage of strikers last season and that tactic worked with a stuffed midfield. Will he still resort to that.

There are a couple of other things i am looking out 4, il post them soon

mamaput:

yea yea thats why so many Nigerian men do not waste time after marrage .
They get tired very fast.
But them at least you are mrs and he cannot run away only cheat.

I agree with u a hundred percent. U r realistic most time.

Ask any married man y he cheats and he will tell u he is tired of poking the same stuff everyday. All he is saying is that his wife's stuff is now old to him and he needs some new stuff. He is basically tired of his wifes pussy and he needs a diffrent one thaz new to him and thatz plain language.

All il have to say is that because of the way most men are, he might run away after so know ur expectations b/4 u plunge into it. If u are open to the idea and u are willing to accept whatever comes from it then the ball is in ur field. At least that should absolve u from any heartbrake should anything go wrong.

Besides women enjoy sex as much as if not more than men coz they have more than twice the nerve endings men have so sex is not a punishment to women. Both are enjoying it equally so if itz all sex too, enjoy

I just heard that we have signed Ricardo Oliviera, the former Betis striker. I think he is a good striker with pace, and that will complement the predatory instincts of Inzaghi and Gilardino (dont know about Borriello right now, and Amoroso is a waste) What do you guyz think about him?

And if i might ask y does he have to be financially 'stable' or should i say able.

If u expect a guy to start spending money on u then telling him (excluding sex) well na u sabi. The days of father christmas are over. Tryaa senator and tell him no sex and lets see

. SORRY CODEC, WE SHALL SEE

Well @ Hustler and other true Rosonneri fans lets discuss our beloved and great team and forget the Juve detractors (greater than Juve, at least in club Hirachy Juve comes Third or Fourth, behind Milan )

Our defense still gives me cause for concern. We need a good center back and Favalli and Amoroso should be offloaded. Gallas or Cris will be a perfect bill and another striker too. I agree with Codec in a way about our defense. Bonera is fine, at least lets give him a chance, but i dont think he will be enough to solve our defensive probs though

@Codec sorry sore loser

u guys will win Serie B 4 some seasons and dont hate on Milan coz it aint there fault u guyz just tossed out of both competitions and into Serie B. I sympatized with Juve during there relegation and felt kind of bad when u guyz were finally relegated .

But then ur team were all pushing on thirty or over with the exception of Zlatan b/4 ur relegation.

MILAN WILL WIN THE SCUDETTO THIS SEASON AND PROGRESS TO THE CHAMPIONS LEAGUE FINALS TOO

@ topic

U guyz dont need to argue with people that are not objective esp Jackal

He argues blindly.

A league that b/w 1990 and 2005 produced only 1 champions league finalist while the Italian league produced 11 and spain 7 is not worth mentioning

Nigerians and their twisted male mentality

we are talking bikinis at the beach and somebody is already preaching husband this and Body is a temple that. the vey same line of argument

Is the male body not also a 'Temple' too. I dont hear people say that or is the body beign a temple only 4 Females

I hate Nigerian hypocrisy. In a nation were human life is cheaper than most things, including petty bribes i wonder what 'morality' we have to feel we are better than everyother person in the world (probably that explains y things dont work in Nigeria, everybody is wasting time trying to prove righteous)

and all this bribery talk

so The 3 major final appearances by Italy in the past 12 yrs were bribery?

they bribe everybody abi, Fifa, Euro officials, Uefa and League too huh?
The fact that they produced 11 champions league finalists while England managed only 1 in the same period was Bribrey too huh? the fact that England cannot progress out of the group stages euro tounament (a tournament that has been won by all major european footballing nations Germany, Italy France and YES Spain and has no Brazil or Argentina in it) except 4 twice (one of which they were the host ) speaks volumes.

AND WHO TOLD U THAT ALL THOSE GUYZ U MENTIONED ARE CULT HEROES IN OTHER LEAGUES?

Woodget ko Owen ni, Beckham ke

@topic please no need to argue with Jackal. ive sen the guy is not objective

He is hyping a league that managed to produce ONLY One champions league finalist in 16 years while their Italian counterparts produced 11 and spain produced 7. He is hyping a league technical bodies in football know is not worth a footballer of year. He has not asked himself y the biggest names in football don't play in the league( Marradonna Stoichkov, Romario,Figo, Zidane, Davids, Ronaldo, Cafu, Thuram,Maldini, Rivaldo, Albertini, Nedved, Ayala,Hagi,J Zannetti, Dino Zoff, Baggio, Deschamps, Desaily, Salas, Zammarano, Batigol, Djorkaeff, Sammer, Lother Matthaus, Vieri,Ronaldinho, Kaka, Weah, Suker etc too numerous to mention.

on the other hand though, the biggest stars to play in The EPL were rejects from other leagues

Viera, Henry, Kanu, Bergkamp, etc and the retirees including Desaily, Weah, Vialli etc

Pirlo was the man of the match 4 the finals too

@ hustler, what do u think about Brocchi now. Did u get a chance to watch him at Fiorentina. i havent seen him play in a while.

Meanwhile even though Ancelotti prefered the christmas tree formation (4-3-2-1) with Ruicosta and Kaka supporting a lone striker, i think he will bend to the wishes of the fans again and play two strikers in a diamond formation (4-1-2-1-2). Either way with Rui Costa gone and a need 4 a striker, i dont know what he plans to do. He still says itz going to be 2 strikers so i guess the fans will have to wait on that. Either way with Pirlo directing operations, i feel our slick passing and possesion game mixed with a quick counter attack is good.

Lets analyse te players and who u think is best suited for each position in either formation

Dalla Bonna has been sold to Napoli. He was 25 and not that good