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Entertainment / Re: Funny Nigerian Animation Video- GBEDU DANCING by Vure(f): 8:53pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Chrisabig: Fat fat fat, na wah oo Stop trolling! It aint funny. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 8:23pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Awww... See what our beautiful thread has turned into. Not nice! |
Entertainment / Re: Funny Nigerian Animation Video- GBEDU DANCING by Vure(f): 8:07pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Lollz.. I saw this video first somewhere and I thought it was boring.. But the animation is cool tho. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 4:16pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
ileobatojo: Abeg Vure, as you prepare for your upcoming wedding, me I want to make sure you also chopped prada, brazillian, BB, samsung galaxy, iPad, car and orisirisi on top this your future husband o. Because if the only thing you 'chopped' is school fees all this time, then you be real mugu + suegbe. Okay this is funny |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 4:15pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
See yabs! Im enjoying this thread jor. Every missile you throw at me my conscience already has. Limme oo. 1 Like |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 4:02pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
jennykadry: Yes? Hehehehehe... The Lord is my muscle. I cant be gloomy all year. 1 Like |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 3:56pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
I think im done being girl of the hour.. Thanks for the attention and advice. Okay story time over. Next step go to nollywood and sell my script abi? 1 Like |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 3:48pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
vivianc: Do you mind if I dont, please? |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 3:45pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
Chillisauce: This is some funny ish. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 2:57pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
vivianc: I know right? If I tell you I still call him 'Uncle' would you believe? Lol... To me and everyone else he's my 'Uncle' and acted so till recently. The over protectiveness, over interest, unecessary quarrels et all just started and so did my fear of him.. And then the proposal.. I'll be forever grateful to him for what he's done for me but I'll be doing him and myself great evil if I get married to him now (yeah he says next two months). maybe later? I dunno. I like you oo Aunty Vivianc |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 1:53pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
vivianc: You ma'am are my conscience. I understand what you mean.. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 1:27pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
Nashville: Modelling things oo no negative thing there. Lol. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 1:12pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
Nashville: Yes Uncle. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 12:37pm On Oct 03, 2013 |
swag queen: Vure,thank you for giving us something to debate on. Hehehehe.. Una go pay me abi.. @everyone, I cant thank you enough for making me see every every from every corner. Eh I gree, I do mistake.... Una don help me wella.. Ese gan. Me here, I still dey talk with my God sha.. E go helep me, I no go do mistake. Im a newbie oo.. Somebody show me around. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 8:04am On Oct 03, 2013 |
Lol.. Well, what can I say. I as guilty as you all say I am. You think I've not thought along this lines? You think Ive not berated myself for this? You think I dont feel like a gold digger? You think Im happy being in this situation? Anyways, I was giving you reasons why I can't up and leave the relationship even if it is bound to be abusive and even if its not what I want... Its all good tho. And No! No one can blame my mum for this. The woman has tried her best to bring me up and shouldn't be blamed at all. Who would have thought that all benefactors get married to their beneficiaries? About seeing someone else, who said I couldn't have seen someone else if I wanted to all this years? Na now? My virtue is all I consider mine y'kno. Thanks everyone once again. It wasn't all that bad sharing my 'tale' here. Now for real ayaf run back to my shell. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 6:03pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Okay Okay I get it. Thanks everyone. *goes back into shell* |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 11:56am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Y'all are getting it wrong. It didnt start as dating. My mum wouldn't take that. It was all "my little wife, small wife" and all.. It never got serious till recently.. My dad is late and its just my mum and siblings. She couldnt do alot to train us all and seeing that he considered me a lil sis she wasn't worried. I don't want to get married to him or anyone else at this stage of my life. I do like him alot but I cant see me spending the rest of my life with him. Now, how do I leave the relationship without being ungrateful? |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 9:56am On Oct 02, 2013 |
ileobatojo: This right here! This is my major problem! I feel like Im indebted to him. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 9:29am On Oct 02, 2013 |
ileobatojo: @ Vure, here's an informative article. Apparently the most telling sign that you are in an abusive relationship is fear of your partner! Thanks. Ive gone through the article. It helps alot. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 9:12am On Oct 02, 2013 |
pickabeau1: Jealousy or trying to insulate you? I don't know which. Honestly. He gets really angry if I hang out with friends or go out without his knowledge.(I dont live with him) And in his anger he yells at me and almost immediately he apologizes. He doesn't have any exes im aware of. According to him, no girl ever worth that much attention till he met me 5 years ago.. I wont resign from the Job. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 8:44am On Oct 02, 2013 |
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Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 8:41am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Nogen: Thanks alot ma'am. He doesn't stop me from seeing friends directly but from his reactions whenever I go out he really hates me being with them.. At times he just suddenly comes up with this great urgency to hang out and thats especially when Im 'sposed to be with my friends. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 8:31am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Thanks so much @Ileobatojo. Ive thought along the lines of what you posted over and over again. @Pickabeau1: Yes im through with Uni. Studied Med. Lab science and I work at a private hospital he recommended me to. He sponsored my education cos my parents were not financially stable at the time hence my hesitation to leave the relationship. The qualities: He doesn't hesitate to assist me financially. Its like im solely dependent on him. Lord knows im not. He thinks all my decisions are childish and doesn't take me seriously. He's very possesive of me, takes me out to where ever I want to go(or sends the driver), would insist if I refuse but then let it go if Im adamant. He's obsessed with the fact that im a virgin and likes to think he would break it. Says he wud kill any guy that comes near me. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by Vure(f): 7:06am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Im scared. Im in a relationship with a man 11 years older than I am. He proposed to me just last week and it may lead to marriage. He's a total sweetheart, loves me and I think adores me. Everyone in my family in fond of him. He's sooo (too) interested in my past. Who Ive been with, all my friends he wants to meet. He's extremely kind and caring but Im scared of him. When I think of him, I get chills. I dunno why I feel like this. I've gone through this thread and the qualities of an Abuser before marriage are all there but then again maybe im just making it seem that way? He hasn't given me reason to think he's an abuser tho but..... *sighs* Well im a young girl (21) and my mouth runs alot, extremely stuborn and not a pushover at all, Im quite popular(thats what broke my last relationship) but he seems facinated by my character. One time he said I'll have to stop speaking to most of my friends. Is it normal? Lol... I dunno if Im wasting my time looking for things that aren't there.. Just need to talk to someone about this relationship. Its scary. |
Romance / Re: His Girlfriend Doesn't Seems To Care by Vure(f): 9:08am On Apr 21, 2013 |
You've lost her.. Give it up.. |
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