Ebonyz, are you the artist formerly known as Ebony Eyes ?

Hi dear,
Its FUNNY I was just about posting a defraud by South Afrcan Airways when I came across your posting.LOL!I'm 30 dear and not married not because guys dont come my way I'm educated,homely,decent and pretty believe me the type of pretty you would not want to come across when u r with a guy but im not married by my choice because what i want is LOVE and not just getting hooked,recently an extremely wealthy handsome man proposed but I couldnt say yes because I wanted more from my marriage than being given the best in life but no happiness,dear PLS wait for your time it will come!!!SMILE,RELAX ENJOY YOURSELF WITH UR GIRLFRIENDS I DONT COS IM ALWAY AT HOME OR WORK MAKE URSELF HAPPY DEAR.

naijagurl:

Is it just that some women are just unlucky with men or they made bad choices? What is it? Is it normal that at 26 I still haven't met a guy that has shown some slight interest in me? How long will this last? My friends get approached by guys all the time, but not me. I mean I don't think I'm bad looking. I keep in shape and take care of myself so I don't what the problem is? African guys just don't seem to be really into me. I hoped to be married after graduating from medical school, but that does not seem like it will happen. I will be graduating this may, but I still haven't even dated someone. I just don't get it. How long will this last? I definitely don't want to become a spinster. The people around me are already putting pressure on me. You know in africa there is no such thing as mind your business.

I would prefer to marry an igbo guy since I am igbo, but I'm open to other nigerians and maybe a guy from some other west african country. However, I'm not having any luck with them at all. All the guys I've been interested in don't seem to know I exist or they are taken.

I don't know what to do. I really want to get married. I don't like the idea of joining a dating site, but I guess I might have to. I feel like it would make me look desperate. I've just been having such bad luck with men. I can't remember a time where any guy actually asked me out.

For those women who become spinsters, what leads to that, b/c I do not want to head that path.

what u wear dont really matter, it is more about what your fore head says, if on your fore head ppl see "i am not your type" they back off. the aire around u matters alot. lastly, many may not agree with this but sometimes it is a spiritual issue and u need to pray to God your Father for deliverance. just my 2 cents

sushiluv:

Hi dear,
Its FUNNY I was just about posting a defraud by South Afrcan Airways when I came across your posting.LOL!I'm 30 dear and not married not because guys dont come my way I'm educated,homely,decent and pretty believe me the type of pretty you would not want to come across when u r with a guy but im not married by my choice because what i want is LOVE and not just getting hooked,recently an extremely wealthy handsome man proposed but I couldnt say yes because I wanted more from my marriage than being given the best in life but no happiness,dear PLS wait for your time it will come!!!SMILE,RELAX ENJOY YOURSELF WITH your GIRLFRIENDS I DONT COS IM ALWAY AT HOME OR WORK MAKE URSELF HAPPY DEAR.

evidence, ur pic plzzzzzzzzzzz!

na2day?:

what u wear dont really matter, it is more about what your fore head says, if on your fore head ppl see "i am not your type" they back off. the aire around u matters alot. lastly, many may not agree with this but sometimes it is a spiritual issue and u need to pray to God your Father for deliverance. just my 2 cents

Yes, marriage is spiritua, na God dey resolve am, place ya faith in hi,m

The patient dog eat the fatest bone!!!

galatico:

The patient dog eat the fatest bone!!!

Not anymore. NO?

galatico:

The patient dog eat the fatest bone!!!

"Good things come to those who wait". . . .BULLSHIT.
BETTER things come to those who CHASE.

SIsi Kill,

You see, thinking is decptive especially when the horizon is streamlined to our views.
You see, you may be archaic in thinking when you say the good guys are all taken.

Men always go for what they see. We(men) are attracted to what we see - beautiful face, big/fine ass, hot legs , then the chase. During the chase, the guy is not gonna look at these issue you mention - medical student. Any educated working guy will always try to hook up with a working class lady.

For instance, I am not married and my parents are now bothering me to get married and one of the girls they are suggesting is even a medical student. I am still busy making considerations of the girls looks - would I keep loving her after one year??

Still water

Thanks for your ans to sisi kill, the girl has no sex appeal and hence no chikerz.
I will not marry a wowo girl simply cos she is a doctor. i am chasing one doctor now but na only for friendship and nothing more.

Nothing is ever late with God, just be who you are and u will get connected at his appointed time, its not all about how many that comes your way, its about that one real person, sometimes we are better off without them around us, am an example, so long it looks as if i have lost it all, but g8 testimony is on the way, You kwn what it all means? God's apponited time.

So take a chill and be happy

This can't be true! damn it!

forbidden5:

Thanks for your ans to sisi kill, the girl has no sex appeal and hence no chikerz.
I will not marry a wowo girl simply cos she is a doctor. i am chasing one doctor now but na only for friendship and nothing more.

hahahahahahahahahahahahha!

sushiluv when u try to encourage the fugly medusa gal that started this thread by telling us that ure "30 yrs old but nit married yet, ", is that "30 yrs old" FOR REAL or is it that "ive been 30 yrs old for the last seven yrs" shit that women be doing?lol. just asking,

brooklyn , this your yankee don kolo you finish.

We all have what we seek for in the opposite sex. Whether it be brains, a$$ets or ASSets. I've seen the most tapping guys marry women i wouldn't date, that's life for you. Her being a fine medical practitioner could just be the thing that'll capture her future bo's heart.

Another thing is, To me 25 and 35 aren't much of a difference, i'd rather marry a 40 year old Jlo or 39 year old, no longer available Carey than an under 30 years Britney or Ciara.

brooklyn99:

sushiluv when u try to encourage the fugly medusa gal that started this thread by telling us that ure "30 yrs old but nit married yet, ", is that "30 yrs old" FOR REAL or is it that "ive been 30 yrs old for the last seven yrs" shit that women be doing?lol. just asking,

^^^^^^ wetin be ur name ? shey I know u ?

[size=18pt]some girls no know say a woman`s play time is short.after 26,u are on ur own.all the bees dat used to disturb u will varnish.[/size]

^^^ what about those who has never had bees disturb them ?

so they have missed out on life all this while.

big rod:

[size=18pt]some girls no know say a woman`s play time is short.after 26,u are on your own.all the bees dat used to disturb u will varnish.[/size]

Dude, u no go kill me oo!

*I laugh in maza maza*

@Posa

Baba I hail oo!

Koooool------- how far my guy?

koolchicco:

*I laugh in maza maza*

which one by maza maza again ?

posakosa:

which one by maza maza again ?

Baba u no fit know nau as u no be nigerian.

^^^^ i know say I be French----- na chicken pom pom---na hin I dey chop but it doesn't hurt to know.
Shey I fit google am ?

posakosa:

^^^^ i know say I be French----- na chicken pom pom---na hin I dey chop but it doesn't hurt to know.
Shey I fit google am ?

Google ke? Baba e be like say u don dey sick 'internetically'. NO?

@posakosa, nah, i doubt that we know each other.

koolchicco:

Google ke? Baba e be like say u don dey sick 'internetically'. NO?

hahahaha----- head dey pain you.

brooklyn99:

@posakosa, nah, i doubt that we know each other.

say ur name na ?

posakosa:

hahahaha----- head dey pain you. 

Sheessh! Na u bn dey complain about your head since yestarday. NO?

. . .me nau nau Posa.

ok-- will do.

naijagurl:

Is it just that some women are just unlucky with men or they made bad choices? What is it? Is it normal that at 26 I still haven't met a guy that has shown some slight interest in me? How long will this last? My friends get approached by guys all the time, but not me. I mean I don't think I'm bad looking. I keep in shape and take care of myself so I don't what the problem is? African guys just don't seem to be really into me. I hoped to be married after graduating from medical school, but that does not seem like it will happen. I will be graduating this may, but I still haven't even dated someone. I just don't get it. How long will this last? I definitely don't want to become a spinster. The people around me are already putting pressure on me. You know in africa there is no such thing as mind your business.

I would prefer to marry an igbo guy since I am igbo, but I'm open to other nigerians and maybe a guy from some other west african country. However, I'm not having any luck with them at all. All the guys I've been interested in don't seem to know I exist or they are taken.

I don't know what to do. I really want to get married. I don't like the idea of joining a dating site, but I guess I might have to. I feel like it would make me look desperate. I've just been having such bad luck with men. I can't remember a time where any guy actually asked me out.

For those women who become spinsters, what leads to that, b/c I do not want to head that path.

If you are serious then send an email to maxxiprince@gmail.com with this topic as subject, and i will give you the secret key, if not just move on cos i dont like time wasters.

I feel you girl.
God makes all things beautiful in His time.
Your time will come.
Do me a mail teamafrica@live.com and let's be friends.
Take kia

a very beautiful lady approached me while i was in DC, and wanted me to model some makeup for her. i wasnt interested so i kept giving her the run around. well evetually she blocked her number and called me. i picked up not knowing who it was and after talking my ear off for about 15 minutes she guilted me into doing the job.

this lady is soo pretty that every time i see her the first thing i think of is, wow so pretty. to make a long story short she is divorced with one child. apparently the guy used to use her as a punching bag. and now she is looking for a husband as well but is finding it mighty difficult. attraction is a funny thing. sometimes u cant pinpoint what a man or woman will like but when they see it they will know. Nne be brave, pray and be patient. dont let urself get pushed into a relationship with a man that is not ready for you. My friend always tells me, mimi you will know if he is right, if it doenst feel right dont marry. so i definately took her advice to her. and as a medical student to a medical student. most women dont start having risks till after 35 and i understand that some moronic men on this site dont know that. The lady gets hit on a lot left and right but do u know what she tells me. God's time is the best.

teamafrica:

I feel you girl.
God makes all things beautiful in His time.
Your time will come.
Do me a mail teamafrica@live.com and let's be friends.
Take kia

"lets be friends"? abeg talk ur church mind ooo

If you are not yet hooked up can we give it a try?
I am an igbo guy from Anambra state.
my number is 08072971670
Maybe we can meet to have a chat.