hehe, Busy_body

I don waka go with my two oku  .

Btw poster, do include guys in uniform in your preference, it could be both of us looking that way  

FL Gators:

Iyalode, se ko si?!

Ah ahn, everybody has been abused by you in the last 24hrs. Who stole your meat pie

~Running from thread before she replies~

Your own case na soon come, meanwhile you have a case to answer in Sagamite's court, and I have been given the unpalatable role of retraining that filthy mouth of yours to stop you coming out with those "do me, do me" statement

koolchicco:

No worries, I go giv u their names in subsequent time.

Suffice 2 say that most of 'em are NLers, ergo u may wish to start with Tpia on the interim.

Now, you look here mind how you talk to us NL girls you hear, don't you know you could be talking to a potential MBGN NL Queen And ain't you supoosed to be on my side, scouting for girls for my camp and not that igbogyal, wetin she don feed you/give you, that I can't do ten times

Sisi_Kill:

@ Busy_Body
But Iya lode what if we end up liking the gigolo assigned to testing us? How are you gonna handle that eh? I need to know i'll be fully protected from the ire of a jilted Naija man before I add my name to the Desperately Seeking List.

The chances of any of you falling for those gigolos is zilch, remember I get first dibs at sampling, and I don't mind juggling 50 men at once


You are one of my prized cash cows because you have the potential to attract as many suitors as possible to serenade you and pay your dowry and brideprice, and with luck, I intend on getting you engaged at least 15 times to milk as much cash as I can get from these men- so don't take the knockback about you and the 4 others ladies being too old to be in my agency for now - too hard babe. Trust me I have your back and only want the best for you

kura king:

Am a medical student too. . .I have personal experience with what most medical girls go through in school. . .
1. Med sch is like a race with not much chances or you are thrown out. . .After ANT, BCH & PHY you land in clinicals. While studying for PAT & PHARM, you deal with stressful ward rounds. Stress continues without break or space. Giving no room to socialise. Thats why most med girls dont know the latest fashion or whats even going on in school. . .
2. Med school kind of exclude you from the main frame of the university. . .We dont have the same academic calender with the sch. . .When school is on break, med school will be on, when the med school is on, school is on break. . .So most of the people we see and interact with are our fellow med students. Thats why doctors always end up marrying doctors
3. Since in nigerian universities, student do 80% of the academic work, is always about books in med school, not compromising anything to pass and move on. Hence most med student dont have time to keep a normal relationship. . .
3. Med school kind of brain wash you with stuffs to the extent that you find it difficult to reason along with people outside med school. . . Making compatibility skew towards medical practitioners. . .
4. The last thing i will say is the years. . .Most medical girls always make the mistake of waiting to be serious in a relationship until after school. . . By the time med sch have counted 6 years to their years, housemanship put additional 1 year and nysc crown it with a year then desperation has to envelope them as their mate admitted into 4 years course must have been working and married by then
But even at all this problems mentioned, they still overcome and marry one way or another. . .
For your case, judging from your post and some of your comments, i think you have always been living the life of an ideal woman, a marriage material based on societal standard. . . See, there is nothing like an ideal woman, that bad character of yours you have been hiding may be the only thing that will thrill your future husband the most. . . Forget about what a wife material should be, BE YOURSELF
well, we all have our story, yours is on the way too and very soon. . . Wish you the best
you can drop me a mail
to see if i can expand your tentacles in search of this man
oghenekura@gmail.com

going by your post, then in that case she should be or have been approached by male med students.

koolchicco:

No worries, I go giv u their names in subsequent time.

Suffice 2 say that most of 'em are NLers, ergo u may wish to start with Tpia on the interim.

cool beans! i can't wait to put them to work

Sisi_Kill:

@ Busy_Body
[size=4]Haughtily[/size]
Well I never!

Guess i won't be using your services coz it seems discretion is not in your dictionary.

Jeez. Like I want any potential Mr. Sisikill to know my real age.

Oh shoot, didn't I tell you that "discretion is our watchword" is our motto, my bad, not to worry, your secret is safe with me, no one has to know that you celebrated your 21st birthday five decades ago

*Hauwa*:

hehe, Busy_body

I don waka go with my two oku  .

Btw poster, do include guys in uniform in your preference, it could be both of us looking that way  

You sef, even if I told you I had Nigerian uniformed men as clients, is it those weather-beaten, parched looking Ol' Soldiers in Nigeria who last got paid in 1970 that I would have on my books or is it those &*$*^% Police Officers you are talking about Mind yaself oh, I have a reputable business to run okay

Busy_body:


Na wetin, I have been officially appointed the person in charge of collecting the data of all the eligible young bachelors on NL who wants to consider Nairaland's succulently ripe crop of 20 something year old ^{single and ready to mingle} ladies going on 30, and of course since I only want the best for my girls, [size=16pt]I have to sample all the eligible bachelors first[/size] So are you ready to hand in your CV, cos as luck would have it, I have one nice chikala in mind that I feel is your missing rib and whom you would fall in love with at first sight the moment you see her, but I have to be honest with you so you would have to make do with her substandard intelligence, I am sure she will make it up in other areas and would not let you down


DISCAIMER - You would need to submit a robust bank balance and be financially solvent before I will even look at your CV/Resume, so timewasters should please stay away


CAVEAT EMPTOR - Gentlemen, the ages of these ladies and the mileage on their &**^% cannot be substantiated as you all know there is no meter there , so apply at your own peril, but for a few million quid, we can provide a Bone Dating Scan to verify there true age and also some clean healthy male gigolos you can hire to go "there" to make sure the place is fertile and unploughed

u wan sample me?na u go tire?

its like u like money too much .u better get married soon or u`ll post ur own very soon when u are more than 30

u are d reason why men dey think so much b4 they get married

^^^ I am the new love-vendor Madam on the block so why do I need to enslave myself and get married, when I can get me any pick of man I want

Busy_body:

^^^ I am the new love-vendor Madam on the block so why do I need to enslave myself and get married, when I can get me any pick of man I want

Sheesh. I think u still neva learnt ya lesson the last time, ehn?

big rod:


u wan sample me?na u go tire?

its like u like money too much .u better get married soon or u`ll post your own very soon when u are more than 30

u are d reason why men dey think so much b4 they get married

Rotfl  *nite of a few hundred laughs*

@Poster,
Just be yourself, don't let thoughts of marriage cloud other aspects of your life, think beyond marriage and live life to the full, above all, have enough love within to share, your man will find you.
If you are desperate, you make yourself prone to mistakes in relationship. My fiance just turned 30 recently and that does not affect my love one bit. I see her as a little baby to be nurtured and taken care of!

@poster, which state do you live? if you are in U.S., let me know, I will introduce you a handful of responsible Igbo guys, maybe you might just get hooked up. Am in NYC though, if you would like us to talk, let me know so that we can exchange contacts. And if you are in US, which state are you, and how often do you attend Igbo functions? That's the surest forum to get hooked up with cute Igbo guys. let me tell you, Nigeria guys in US are weary of Nigerian girls in US especially when it comes to marriage. I will tell you why when we start talking, there is no consensus about the reason, but it seems every Nigerian guy in US has this conception at the back of his mind. If you can deal with that believe or at least you know about it and try to deal with it, I assure you, you will soon land you dream guy.

Sorry if i offend any one but just because she's from a particular geographical area doesn't mean that her life has to be centered around her culture till she dies. Doesn't she have the right to go out and explore new things ? Whether Ibo, yoruba or Efik, she can find a life partner not only anywhere from Nigeria but whe whole damned universe.
Personally i'm beginning to find the intra tribal hook ups real boring and hope we mix it up a bit.

My opinion though, doesn't count for much i guess

Busy_body:


I no do again, sheesh, Did you have to reply me via this medium and let everyone know how desperate I am gagging for it Couldn't you have found another means to reply me Just give me your bleeding number like that, I am sure i can think of a friend whom it will come in handy for

Now you wanna make me qwai. .seriously speaking

edoyad:

Sorry if i offend any one but just because she's from a particular geographical area doesn't mean that her life has to be centered around her culture till she dies. Doesn't she have the right to go out and explore new things ? Whether Ibo, yoruba or Efik, she can find a life partner not only anywhere from Nigeria but whe whole damned universe.
Personally i'm beginning to find the intra tribal hook ups real boring and hope we mix it up a bit.

My opinion though, doesn't count for much i guess

Well, different strokes for differnt folks! You dont care about who you marry, she does! Besides she said she'd prefer an Igbo guy! For some people (like me) that is non negotiable.

Sorry ma'am, be a bit patient.

Don't worry 30 is gradually becoming d average age in this country!

Mistakes Women Make Before Marriage
By Olamide Olayiwola

GENERATION after generation, women make the same mistakes when it comes to marriage. This can be avoided, to some extent, if mothers spend as much time teaching their daughters about marriage as they do teaching them other life skills. Here are some tips on choosing the right partner:

Romance Is Not Enough

The number one mistake women make is getting married because they are in love! Being in love in itself is not a good reason to marry. Women fall in love for many reasons. It doesn't mean the man they have fallen in love with will be a good partner. Choosing a good partner makes all the difference between having a harmonious marriage and a difficult marriage.

Women need to seriously question if they are compatible with their partner. Do they complement each other? In an Interaction with some women friends recently, one said: "I fell in love with three completely different men before I finally married. If I had married any of them, I would have ended up with a compulsive cheater or an emotionally stunted husband! Each taught me a valuable lesson about what I didn't want and the result is that I married a good man who still spoils me."

Many women believe in the "and they lived happily ever after" ending. Women are fed romantic ideals from the day they are born. Books and movies aimed at girls invariably promote the big wedding to the perfect man as the ideal ending. Is it any wonder women don't tend to look past the romance of the wedding to the 50 or so years of marriage that follows!

Women believe that he will always be as romantic as he is now. Often, women have very unrealistic expectations based on the way their partner behaved during the courtship. That doesn't mean women have to give up on romance, it is just that they shouldn't expect a 'grand gesture' every day. In fact, it is okay for the woman to be the one to instigate romantic occasions and remind the man of the many small romantic gestures which make her feel special.

Women Abandon Too Much For The Relationship

They often give up their friends and interests when they fall in love. With the thrill of being in love, it is too easy for women to put friends and family, hobbies and sports on the backburner. This is a fundamental mistake to make because women depend on support throughout their lives and men just can't be everything to women. It is asking too much of them.

Women lose their sense of self. Getting into an intense relationship before they've developed a clear sense of their own identity is another common mistake young women make. Without a clear sense of self, women identify overly with their partner and find it difficult to stand up for themselves and their own needs. This will eventually lead to resentment and even depression.

They settle. A lot of women start to panic if they aren't married by their mid-20s and that biological clock starts ticking loudly. The result is that they make excuses and rationalizations to themselves about a relationship that is past. Marrying someone because they are afraid to be alone is unfair to themselves and their partner.

They rush into marriage. It almost seems to be a race across the wedding finishing line for many young women. Just because a woman has found the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with doesn't mean she has to marry him straight away. They should enjoy their youth so that they will not have any regrets later.
Women Don't Do Their Research Before Choosing Their Husbands

They don't have conversations about serious issues before getting married. Women need to talk to their partners about where they both stand on issues that can make or break a marriage. They need to talk about the number of children they both want. Does she intend to stay home to raise them, where each person's priorities lie, spending styles, dreams and goals, where they see themselves 20 years from now, parenting styles, sharing of responsibilities, etc?

They have sex before marriage with their lovers. Women need to make sure that their men are people they can be happy with before jumping into bed with them.

They believe that they can change their men. Women have a tendency to gloss over qualities they don't like in a man, telling themselves, "Oh, he'll change," or "I'll work on that". If a woman does manage to bully a man into changing, their relationship will suffer. Women need to either accept and enjoy the differences between them or create an environment that encourages their men to want to change.

http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/life_style/article11//indexn3_html?pdate=141109&ptitle=Mistakes%20Women%20Make%20Before%20Marriage&cpdate=141109

hi , i tink the fault i s from you , if guys dont come to you , ve to check ur personality , are u friendly , do u smile when guys look ur way , so many other things u ve to work on , am single young girl, i still get guys attentions , even though am not as educated or a princess like u , i live in uk ,

if you are thinking about the physical aspect of life, try thinking of the spiritual too, i have seen cases like yours and it ends up being a spiritual problem. this is Africa and Nigeria to be precise.

Ok missy u sound scary. i'd advice anyone that likes hisself to stay away, when nigerian women in NY (or any of this other big cities)start complaining about "time ticking", they usually exhibit signs of being schizo. i know from experience. i met this nigerian girl once, we agreed we wouldnt date, just have sex. FIRST convo ever, this girl tells me how she wants a baby and she doesnt care who the daddy is. when she realizes that im freaked out she makes it seem like it was a joke. fast forward to two weeks lata, we have sex, now she wants me to be her boyfriend, she actually insists, honey, i dont want nobody. she had the most violent temper ( i saw this after just 2 weeks of knowing her), had no respect, she had just come from africa and had this preconceived notion of what women do to men over here (definitely based on stupid stories she heard back in africa, books she read or movies she watched). crazy bitch would call my baby moms at 2am, broke my phone just cause i was talking to my daughter; claimed she needed attention.picked a fight for no reason (always physical; cus she felt the police "always" listen to women) insisted i pay her rent  . for real, homegirl thot she was in a village back in lagos. she wanted me to do her laundry (all of this just under about a month of knowing her---- thot thats how women treat men here).by the second month she said she had to move in with me (in two months i saw her only like 8 times). went ballistic  if other gals called me, but would gladly hold a conversation with other guys in my presence telling them how she loved them and shit. i encouraged it too, i didnt care, used to hope her talking to other guys would get her off my case .sister was sick, just as im assuming this naijagurl person is too. ah, and they both in the medical field, what a surprise!!!!about the same age too.

u girls in nigeria , always think of spirtual problems too much , be civilize ,

@poster
Are you no longer enjoying the strong and independent lady BS . . . .

Go and marry a girl in your village
they are available.

mama-gee:

Go and marry a girl in your village
they are available.

I add "no offense" to my comments cos i say them without any harm intended.

Ujujoan and all, when you say marrying an ibo bloke is non negotiable for you, that's great. I think It's real strong and focused for us to know what we want out of life and be ready to hold out for it. The thing is that the poster said she'd "prefer" , now that doesn't seem to me she's closing the gates to other possibilities.

Do you want to know the kind of woman i'd prefer ? I'd prefer a 6foot 1 athletic chick, who is half Brazilian-half Cuban, likes English football and can answer the cross word puzzle behind the vanguard newspaper in 5 mins.
The problem is I've never met such a girl and i know the chances of me meeting one is quite slim. That's my preference, which i have to reconcile with the reality i have on ground.

As for the poster, a medical student already gave us a good reason why things are turning out they are for her but the fact of life is it throws lemons at everyone.

posakosa:

Quit being a stalker.

mama-gee:

Quit being a stalker.

@poster

relax. be yourself.

true love will come your way when/where you least expect it

funkybaby:

@poster

relax. be yourself.

true love will come your way when/where you least expect it

All those 36-year-old professional babes in Canary Wharf waited for true love to come.
It never came.

~Sauron~:

All those 36-year-old professional babes in Canary Wharf waited for true love to come.
It never came.

lol. 
your likes are best ignored !

~Sauron~:

All those 36-year-old professional babes in [b]Canary Whar[/b]f waited for true love to come.
It never came.

Dude u go kil me ooo! 

kooool-----

funkybaby:

lol. 
your likes are best ignored !

Forgive ma manners. . . . .I was only stating the FACT.

koolchicco:

Dude u go kil me ooo! 

Women should start realising there's an acute shortage of MEN these days.