Kobojunkie: ROFLMAO!!!!

Like I said . . . .

jidegirl12:

So annie I am calling you up now...does this idi ot ever told you he is getting a divorce or not?..Answer me now before kobo start to gloss her/his mouth on my leather Jacket ;

coogar:

kobo is a fücking idiöt!
if you make up a story that your husband shouted at you for ruining his shirt with the electric iron, kobo would urge you to call the national guards and get your husband apprehended cos he's abused you......kobo's intention is to destroy every marriage brought on here so she can have more women in her "sad and lonely" echelon. only a complete fool would listen to kobo's advice - the cüntbucket has no good intentions for anyone - there should be a sign attached to kobo's username.

Annie1: @ Coogar , girl u r feistyyyyyy
Me loveeeesssss it

jidegirl12:

UMM thanks @cooger ..that was a very thoughtful of you on the info part....I just have a gut feeling that Annie and this idio t have been involved and she feels guilty so she came here for advice if she should go ahead with the D thing and she doctored her story....I will still stand by my point tho on the Karma rule ..evil will never befall a good and kind hearted person...it's just doesn't !

jennykadry: He kissed her a year after marriage.

@Annie
I dont know you but I like you and honestly I wish you well, I really do. You are smart and I love that.

Bye bye y'all

coogar:

oh shut your trap, you sad dejected soul - whose post are you referring to as silly.....mistress of the universe, if you are this smart about marriage issues, why are you a divorcee? misery loves company! you want to drag annie1 into your own level of unhappiness and loneliness?



it matters because the ex is the father of her child! it matters because the 2 are still in love with each other and it also matters because she didn't ask for this to happen, it was the ex that rekindled the splint of love. she's human, she made mistakes and for the sake of her child, she wants a father figure in his son's life! if that's too much for you to digest, then get a long rope, find a strong beam to tie it to and climb on a stool.......

you are the last person that should be advising anyone about marriage - you woefully failed at yours!!!

Annie1: I actually left him , I've not told u all the full story .. I cheated on him (covers face) , not physically but emotionally , I was chatting with this dude at work ( it wasn't explicit stuffs but more romantic ( if u didn't have a boyfriend , I would love u to be mine n i fed into it )
Me Ex read all the text message n e confronted me , and did I apologise ? No ! I said well I didn't physically cheat , so what the biggie

Annie1: @ Coogar , girl u r feistyyyyyy
Me loveeeesssss it

Annie1: @ Coogar , girl u r feistyyyyyy
Me loveeeesssss it

Annie1: Thanks Jidegirl and Airpure ..

No I'm not only givin kudos to posts that seems to be on my side , I just feel they get where I'm coming from

No , we never fought infront of our child cos we broke up before I gave birth , yes he was with me throughout the birth , he took us home from the hospital ...
I remember him leaving that night and I so wanted to say something , like please stay n he was lingering too , but I didnt n he left ..

This is not a classic boy dumps pregnant girl , it's more silly pregnant woman tells her man to leave because she thinks she Halle Berry .. Lool
I was stupid !

If I told u guys this story a year ago , u will think I was painting a monster , up until then , I didn't think I was wrong , but i felt like a cloth lifted off my face , I'm like who was that woman , that did sll this he even told me , I got so angry one day n threw a plum (canned tomato)at him n broke his lip

I did all those but I conveniently forgot them while talking to friends n family ..

Now I know my wrongs n I thought this was a chance to correct it cos I can never be that woman again .

But u r all right , he's a married man !

I've told him , I won't be getting involved and it's best we let it go and he should go sort things out with his wife ..

He said .. Ok , u never really liked me anyway , and we go after what we want in life as no one is going to do it for us , and If i could apply the way I am in my professional life to my person life , then I will always get what I want

I said , well , that dosent excuse the fact , u r married , u should have thought of all these before u got married ..

He didn't say anything ..

So with that said , will try n move on again !

BABE!:

F-u-c-k me! What is wrong with you people? You cheated on him, had a baby with him, forced him into another woman's arms, and y'all are back seducing each other. This love story is getting too damn complicated!

Cheats rub me the wrong way, so I'm automatically on the wife's side. Both of you are cheats, you cheated on him, he's cheating on his wife. As much as I hate to say this, you are match-made in heaven.

Baby-parentness also rub me the wrong way. The wife is in "trouble", because even if you cheats decide to go your separate ways, he will still have to see his son who is with you, and by that he gets to see you from time to time which is a classic recipe for disaster.

I just hope to God that if you get back together with him, he doesn't cheat and you don't cheat, coz if any of you cheats, that'll just be a f-u-c-king pathetic story.
Please UPDATES, UPDATES, UPDATES! I loathe half stories.

coogar:
isn't that enough reason for these lovebirds to get back together? they would forever be in contact with each other because of their son. how soon before these sparks would start flying all over again.....better to make it official than leave the back door open for adultery to creep in. as long as annie1 remains single, her heart would forever be with her ex......

BABE!:
As much as I hate to say this, you are match-made in heaven.

Guitarlife: Dammit coogar ! Dammit! Why would you descend to that . C'mon man I'm totally disappointed in you. Ask around you couldn't beat at that a while ago but since I recently decamped to the cabal party I ain't gon sit my a*rse here and watch you denigrate a woman.
Seriously coogar, that's just petty. You shouldn't have said that I suggest you apologise to junkie. You need to.

BABE!:

Of course they deserve each other. I remember typing that.

They should get back together. If it works out or doesn't, I, as a spectator would be "satisfied", regardless.
If it works out, this mess of a story will be saved.
If it doesn't, karma is a snicky b1tch.

chaircover:

Looooooooool even the girl dey laugh say she come 17th can you imagine . . . meanwhile me her mother used to rep school in 100 metres o!

come up from air ke

Ive been doing housework all day

I am just sitting down for my first cup of coffee all day. You people should leave me oooooooo and let me enjoy my coffee in peace

BTW i watched the tail end of a nollywood movie last night where the guy did realise his mistake and come back . . . .but it was too late . . . . .the girl stabbed herself to death a few minutes before he came through the door

coogar:
i thought cheats rub you the wrong way....

coogar:
they should get back together in my opinion too....
• they have a kid together
• there's mutual love between the two
• the child needs a father figure. no other man would treat the kid as good as his own dad
• there's a risk adultery might creep into the man's marriage as he gets to see his ex constantly!

Busy_body:
I agree with the poster Deols when she says "Being married to a man who wants to be with some1 else isnt a good thing", hmmm, this life sha. . .

Airpure:

There is soooo much wrong wit ur post. I wanted to comment but decided it's too late to change ur morals. I can only imagine u see urself in Annie . At least learn from her mistake.

coogar:

but the wife sympathisers missed that single most important factor.....to them, since they are married, they are married - happiness or lack of it does not matter. at the end of the day, you have 3 grown adults who are not happy with the way things have panned out!

• wife is unhappy because husband is not responsible
• husband is unhappy because he wants to be anne1 and his kid
• annie1 is unhappy because she wants to be with her ex

at the centre of this, there's an innocent child who needs to be taken care of and raised in a proper family unit!

ileobatojo: And as usual, Coogar is deeply embroiled in an argument where both sides pretty much have the same point. They are free to get together only if and when the guy is divorced abi not so? So because you are more sympathetic to OP and the man's love story and the other people's sympathies first lie with the wife caught in the middle, WWIII must go down? 'Girl', you too dey enjoy drama!

Busy_body:
Every side (symphathetic/unsympathetic) has their own points, its just that in this case, the ex still has to regularly go to Annie's place to see his child meaning he will not be able to get the closure needed to forge on with Wifey and might even grow to resent her. In addition to this, the ex has been married over a year with no baby in tow, meaning his heart strings is being pulled towards not only Annie but also his first child... Sad story about the reality of life.

I agree with you likewise Deols that this is a case that cannot be swept under the carpet especially because that lil child caught in the midst is not going anywhere and he didn't ask to be born into such, hence reason a compromise is needed soon...

coogar:

thunder fire your keyboard.....

coogar:

thunder fire your keyboard.....



excellent post, ma'am.....
but if you are this intelligent, why are you still @ yaba left?

ileobatojo: And as usual, Coogar is deeply embroiled in an argument where both sides pretty much have the same point. 'Girl', you too dey enjoy drama!

coogar:

thunder fire your keyboard.....
the 2 parties do not have the same point - one party has chastised the op calling her everything under the sun and the other party is saying - this is not her fault

coogar:

the 2 parties do not have the same point - one party has chastised the op calling her everything under the sun and the other party is saying - this is not her fault

They are free to get together only if and when the guy is divorced

BABE!:

. .the f-u-c-k bruh? Who's fault is it? Jupiter's? I guess there are 3 parties.

ileobatojo:
You want to start abi? After all the name calling and the pity parties, what has been the main point of both sides? Is it not this?

Busy_body:
I can answer that...there was a vacancy for the most intelligent at yabaleft you see...and nothing tops being the best in one field and continuosly breaking ones own record ^{ask Usain Bolt}...and the rest as they say is history...i love repping yabaleft and i'mma rep it for life...

Annie1:

@ jidegirl .. Now I'm confused , thought u were wit me hmmmmmmm

Again ,no we ve never been involved ! Just the brief kiss
( took everything in me to push him away )

coogar:

i refuse to be tempted - well done...

coogar: the husband's!

The husband's? No wonder they keep mistaking you for a female.

It's the husband's fault that she cheated? It's the husband's fault that she thought it was no big deal to cheat? It's the husband's fault that she refused to apologize to him? It's the husband's fault that she dumped him? Back up . . . it's the husband's fault that she stoned him with an object at a point in time and he got injured? VIOLENCE! It's the husband's fault that he got chased out of the relationship? It's the husband's fault that he met another woman and married her?

If Annie wasn't/isn't cray-cray, this "couple" would be as straight as a 30cm ruler!